Transexuals and Transgenders
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Cigarettes And Suicide Bleeding on the Floor Age: 37 Gender: Female Posts: 1725 | iamnotok: Well, to start with, the 'girl' wouldn't have been a girl on the inside, otherwise s/he wouldn't have got a sex change. She would have looked like a girl, and had the bits and pieces of a girl, but felt like a boy, so that's how it works. And the sad fact is, the majority of places in this world don't permit gay marriage, so they'd either have to move somewhere it was, or not get married, same as any other gay couple. Having a sex change has got nothing to do with it. They wouldn't be permitted to marry regardless of what the 'girl' started out as, because once the surgery and everything is done, they are legally classed as a male. The 'Girl' doesn't exist anymore as far as the legality is concerned. NotOkay22:Actually, surgery can be reversed, but it's far more complicated than having it done to start with. And this girl shouldn't have been permitted to undergo surgery is she didn't feel she was a boy trapped in a girl's body - homosexuality is no reason to change one's gender. There is a lot of therapy, counselling, and interaction with professional phychiatrists involved before even hormone therapy starts, to ensure that the person requesting the operation is making the right decision for them, and that they're doing it for the right reasons. |
Oooh Hit It Again! Joining The Black Parade Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 188 | I think that you're born the sex you are for a reason. I'm not going to go around condemning people or anything, but your sex is not your hair color. |
Fezzik Salute You in Your Grave Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 2748 | ^That's not really the way it works, though. Physically, your male or female. But your brain can be the opposite gender of what your born, because of screw-ups in the womb. So you feel like one gender but have the genitalia of another. Your brain isn't programmed to know if your blue-eyed or brown-haired, but it is programmed to know if your a boy or a girl. And sometimes that programming doesn't match up with the gender you were born. |
Oooh Hit It Again! Joining The Black Parade Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 188 | Somehow, it feels wrong, though. I don't know. We're the way we are for a reason, right? |
Fezzik Salute You in Your Grave Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 2748 | ^...exactly. For transgenders, their body feels wrong. It feels completely and utterly wrong. Not like, "my nose is too big, I don't like it, it feels wrong," like "the person in the mirror is not me. I hate everything about my body and am so uncomfortable in it that I have to change it if I plan to go on with my life". So they do. You can't leave everything up to fate. Sometimes you have to take action. Should cancer patients refuse treatment because they have the illness they have for a reason? Should we not perform emergency C-Sections because the children who can't be born naturally can't be born for a reason? No. It's human nature to try to fix our problems. And being born in the wrong body is definitely a problem. |
ThinkxHappyxThoughts Joining The Black Parade Age: - Gender: Female Posts: 204 | I read the book Luna, and that totally and completely changed my outlook upon TG's. I used to be like "well, if that's what they want, cool" but it kind of creeped me out. When my mom (rather a homophobe >=C) sees one, she makes fun of them, not to their face, but around us. But now, I mean, transvestites and transgenders, jeeze, if you feel wrong, do something about it. Power to the people, man. |
RedRiot. Salute You in Your Grave Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 2482 | People should be able to feel happy about who they are. If the feel that they are unhappy in the sex the have been born it and they feel they should have been born the opposit sex then they should have every right to become the person they feel they should be. |
UndyingSoul. Really Not Okay Age: 34 Gender: Female Posts: 722 | Cigarettes And Suicide: Well of course she was ready for it when the time came, and she never started to feel any regret until months after. For a very long time she enjoyed being a male and having relationships with women, but then started to feel more...different. She (he) told me that she was kinda feeling like a plastic doll, like she wasn't real. She went to counseling (as a male) for weeks and finally came to a decision to change back into a women. She is no longer homosexual and is enjoying her life. She has a boyfriend and seems a lot happier, and more honest with herself. I'm not saying that all transexuals will feel this way (most wont), I'm just saying that it is possible for it to be a very traumatic experience (like it was for my friends) if your no longer happy with yourself after the surgery. |
Helena and Hearts Jazz Hands Age: 30 Gender: Female Posts: 314 | it's there life y not? |
malibu. In the Cannibal Glow Age: 30 Gender: - Posts: 54114 | I think its fine. Like when I was younger I believed I was a boy because I rebelled from the 'normal' things most girls my age would do/like. I hated pink, dresses, skirts, flowery tops, mermaids, my little pony and barbie. I liked Thomas The Tank Engine, blue, pants and plain t-shirts. I used to climb trees, get covered in mud and play with insects, because thats what I wanted to do. It doesn't make me much different to anyone elst, those were just stuff I enjoyed. |
Helena and Hearts Jazz Hands Age: 30 Gender: Female Posts: 314 | my brother was born a boy but now he is my sister |
glitter geek. Shotgun Sinner Age: 82 Gender: Female Posts: 7532 | On a soap opera my mom watches there was/is a transexual guy who felt he was a woman inside. He was a rockstar and went by Zarf, but now he is Zoe. Or she. It all gets confusing after a while. When watching those kind of things I often relate it to real life and think about how brave people are. I think it kind of ties in with what Gerard once said... Something about being able to go to a concert and not feeling bad or nervous. I think it's great. Sex change is a not a big issue. It's only a big issue to those willing to have the sex change. People not willing should not even think about it. I don't think I even thought of this topic until I stumbled upon it. |
Silverstein Bleeding on the Floor Age: 30 Gender: Male Posts: 1248 | It'd be kind of weird to get married to someone, only to tell you later that they were originally the other sex. In either case, it may mean that the person may be gay, but I'm not saying anything good or bad. It just seems like a desecration of humanity. |
Ben Dover Fabulous Killjoy Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 107 | I dont find anything wrong with it, I have ALOT of transgender friends and gay friends too. Honestly Its not their choice, as someone said they cant always choose, Your brain will tell you what you want. Once your braon has set on something its all over, You can go your life knowing you want ot be something and be miserable, Or you can change it and be happier person. Whatever desicions people make i think we should supporte them, I know for a fact they support other people opinions. |
Kangaroo Ninja Salute You in Your Grave Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 3100 | if someone wants to be a guy when they are a gal then its their choice and people should respect that!!! they are the same person they just look diffrent and feel more comfortable in themselvs!! |
riceroll. Salute You in Your Grave Age: - Gender: - Posts: 2676 | Everyone should have the right to feel beautiful, no matter what. It doesn't mean other people HAVE to respect it, they don't have to like it. Whatever a person wants to do with their body is their choice. Personally, I am getting a sex change when I am 18. I need to be a boy, with other boys. When I read the book Luna, I felt so relieved. |
Toxic! Motor Baby Age: 31 Gender: Male Posts: 964 | I give people so much credit for getting sex changes when they feel they need one. They are just so brave. I could never, I..just couldn't, I just wish I was born a boy. Much easier. And if people don't understand why people feel this way, think about this "why would they purposely want to put themselves up for so much teasing and abuse and misery, if they didn't believe this was how they were?" People shouldnt hate, but they do. |
Video Kid Shotgun Sinner Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 7328 | People are what they are. |
CyanidexDeath Jazz Hands Age: - Gender: Female Posts: 365 | i belive people can do whatever they want with their own body. people shouldn't take away their free will. i think people that change are brave. they follow their heart dispite all the harassment they might get. |
jesse lacey. Salute You in Your Grave Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 4824 | In order to fully understand this issue, people need to understand the difference between sex and gender. They are often used interchangeably when in fact this is not accurate. Sex referes to the label "male" or female" assigned at birth based on one's genitals. Gender refers to the culturally determined behavioral, social, and psychological traits that are typically associated with being a male or female. Sometimes, one's inner sense of gender identity doesn't match one's genitals and the assumptions made based on them. Sometimes a person won't identify with male or female, chosing to remain gender neutral or providing some other form of identity for oneself. I know a transgender person (female to male) pretty well and I never would have guessed he was. I just saw him as a boy, the way he wanted to be seen. He had had hormonal therapy and breast removal but had to stop his testosterone injections because they were endangering his health. It's perfectly normal, and hopefully one day society will begin to accept it just as it slowly is beginning to with gay people. |
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