On-line relationships
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The.Blue.Kitten Joining The Black Parade Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 215 | |
IXPROMISE Jazz Hands Age: 30 Gender: Male Posts: 360 | i think its a bad idea (im from jersey to ) |
Ceiling Gerard Awake and Unafraid Age: 35 Gender: Female Posts: 14232 | I have had four online relationships, and it can work as long as both parties are willin to communicate with each other. It is hard though, expecially since you can hang out with them, hold their hands, etc etc. Some poeple can do it- I have seen two couple who met over the internet and are now married with kids. Happily married I may add. |
SFXtra Motor Baby Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 770 | I can't imagine being happy in an online relationship. |
aliss practice. Shotgun Sinner Age: 102 Gender: - Posts: 8198 | Well, I don't mind. I don't have these relationships, I am only 12. But i have experiance because of my Dad. He is an aircraft engineer, and whenever the Islam Hajj was on, he had to go out and make sure everything was under control at airports. The strain was seriously bad on me and my Mom, because we don't get along. It became very, very hard, considering I was being bullied at one of the times he went out. But, consider the plus signs. I have travelled all over the world, Singapore, Australia, Las Vegas, New York, Toronto, Kos, loads of places. The pull on mothers when there husbands are away is especially significant, btu I have no idea for others. I imagine it to be hard however. |
druscilla. Bleeding on the Floor Age: 36 Gender: Female Posts: 1671 | I'm in an online relationship. It's hard as hell. You have to be comitted and it's about wanting the person and not a person. I think as long as you know the person and you're not a twelve-year-old who is going to end up getting raped by a fifty-year-old it's all right. The world is evolving and the internet is a major form of communication. It's only logical that people start using it for relationships. Also, non-romantically, all of my friends are internet friends. |
billy99 Motor Baby Age: - Gender: - Posts: 888 | druscilla_way:ALL? Whoa dude. |
druscilla. Bleeding on the Floor Age: 36 Gender: Female Posts: 1671 | billy99: Yes, all. |
billy99 Motor Baby Age: - Gender: - Posts: 888 | That's crazy. Well online relationships are really hard to maintain. I had an online friendship once, and we really got disconnected after some time because I had no time to go online. |
Gerard for S.P.E.W.! Jazz Hands Age: - Gender: Female Posts: 251 | I've had an online friendship with several people since august of 2005. They've been really good friends, and I see nothing wrong with it |
druscilla. Bleeding on the Floor Age: 36 Gender: Female Posts: 1671 | billy99: Well, if you have constant access to the internet and you go on it as often as I do they aren't very hard to maintain. I met my fiance and my maid of honour [to be] online. If you communicate then the relationships are quite easy to maintain. It also doesn't help that I have to lead a double life [with my homosexuality] in my community. That sort of cancels out friendship. When I'm online I am myself and I find people who accept that. It's easier to be yourself online when face-to-face rejection isn't an option. I think lots of people embrace that. |
loaded_gun Jazz Hands Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 398 | druscilla_way: I think online relationships are hard, (speaking from experiance) but if you do it the right way they can be maintained well. The boy I dated we grew apart and never talk now. He hates me for some weird reason. But I think if you find someone you truely connect with you should go for it. Any love is love no matter where they/you are. |
Geesus. Motor Baby Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 891 | idk i'm half for it then half against it. i mean you really don't know the person and could end up being killed and/or raped but then the internet is a major thing right now in life and is used to communicate with loved ones so why not find someone online too. as i said half against half for. |
billy99 Motor Baby Age: - Gender: - Posts: 888 | You have a point. |
Sammie Really Not Okay Age: 36 Gender: Female Posts: 639 | I think it can be good and bad at the same time. You don't really know the person you are speaking to. It could be a 50 year old guy who pretending to be 15. You have to be really careful. But saying that, you don't really know the person you meet at the pub/club or whatever. i think having a webcam helps. Because then you can see who you are taling to and they can see you. Anyone involved in a online relationship just be careful that the person is who they say they are. |
Pandora's Box Motor Baby Age: 29 Gender: Female Posts: 767 | no i think its bad because if your young and niave then i think its bad because you mite agree to meet them without reliseing and then they wil prob start stalking you!! |
alexander Killjoy Age: 33 Gender: Male Posts: 47 | I think its okay...but then again I dont because there are so many perverts out there and you could be talking to one. |
Ava Maria Bleeding on the Floor Age: 40 Gender: Female Posts: 1423 | I just couldn't do an online relationship....I need to be able to hear,see,touch the person.I like to hold hands and all that crap you do in a relationship |
druscilla. Bleeding on the Floor Age: 36 Gender: Female Posts: 1671 | fullmetalfreek: I knew who I was talking to. We traded phone numbers and everytime I called up I was handed to the same person. Andie's family was there and I talked to everyone by the time we started dating. The fact that her father kept going "what does a 19-year-old have to say to a 15-year-old at one in morning" pretty much proved she was real. And this was all before we started dating online. It is very easy to fall into traps online. I was never big into internet non-platonic relationships to start with. The only reason I would have dated someone is if I knew they were real. I knew Andie was who she said she was. I think that if you know that and have proof and you fall for someone, it's your choice. And it's hard, but if you love them it's worth it. |
fallout vapor Jazz Hands Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 318 | I think online relationships are rather useless. And creepy! |
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