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Abstinence

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IceHog69
Bulletproof Heart
IceHog69
Age: 31
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Posts: 25232
May 6th, 2008 at 11:54am
okay, apparently a lot of people on this site don't think sex is a good idea. They seem to be promoting it as a way of staying healthy, not dying of cancer, and being perfect.
Go fuck yourself
Devil's Got Your Number
Go fuck yourself
Age: 30
Gender: Female
Posts: 37823
May 6th, 2008 at 12:11pm
I think there was a topic about this anyway.
But honestly to me it doesn't matter if you wait before you have sex or not.
I mean I know alot of people who went out, had sex, they broke up then it turns out shes pregnant so then they get back together only to be miserable with each other. I think if you don't have sex there is that benefit that you don't have to worry about being pregnant or getting a nasty STD. But if you do have sex you should use a condem (the pull out method isn't too safe) just be safe if you do
rollertoaster
Fabulous Killjoy
rollertoaster
Age: 30
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Posts: 143
May 6th, 2008 at 12:52pm
I think it doesn't matter when you have sex, as long as you feel you can emotionally deal with possible consequences, and practice safe sex.

and I also think that people shouldn't have sex if they arent 100% sure they want to and they aren't being pressured into it. If someone threatens your relationship over sex, then they don't care enough about you in the first place,
Mindfuck
Always Born a Crime
Mindfuck
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May 7th, 2008 at 04:30am
Hmm, I can see this topic getting very similar to the Sex Education topic, in terms of argument. Let's see what a mod thinks about it...