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brandleys;
Death Defying
Age: 28
Gender: Female
Posts: 186345 | July 24th, 2022 at 03:50pm
FACE YOUIR DEMONS
HEAR THAT INNER VOICE, IT CALLS, IT CRIES FOR YOU
JUST LISTEN WELL, I'M THE ONE WHO'LL TELL TERRIFYING, SCARY, DREADFUL TALES~~~ |
brandleys;
Death Defying
Age: 28
Gender: Female
Posts: 186345 | July 24th, 2022 at 03:54pm oh thank god |
brandleys;
Death Defying
Age: 28
Gender: Female
Posts: 186345 | July 24th, 2022 at 03:54pm y'all won't have to hear my singing anymore just to get rid of the spam |
beyond the grave;
Patron Saint of Switchblade Fights
Age: 26
Gender: Female
Posts: 65876 | July 24th, 2022 at 06:09pm brandleys;: not your shoulders, the spam funny that that's what it looks like tho, especially now the spam's gone  |
brandleys;
Death Defying
Age: 28
Gender: Female
Posts: 186345 | July 24th, 2022 at 07:30pm amy your shoulders are awesome and not gross |
NotYourKindOfPeople
In The Murder Scene
Age: -
Gender: -
Posts: 22669 | July 25th, 2022 at 03:16am No they are gross. We're at war with each other. |
brandleys;
Death Defying
Age: 28
Gender: Female
Posts: 186345 | July 25th, 2022 at 04:24pm i really don't know what to do
i'd call cps in a heartbeat if i knew they wouldn't be fucking useless and put my nieces in a potentially worse situation
i was writing a huge thing about what's going on but the point is my sister is totally unfit to have these girls
we have willow here, but we can't get nina because she's so young and so dependent on her still
and i'm really worried about her mental development being around my sister |
beyond the grave;
Patron Saint of Switchblade Fights
Age: 26
Gender: Female
Posts: 65876 | July 25th, 2022 at 09:47pm brandleys;: i really don't know what to do
i'd call cps in a heartbeat if i knew they wouldn't be fucking useless and put my nieces in a potentially worse situation
i was writing a huge thing about what's going on but the point is my sister is totally unfit to have these girls
we have willow here, but we can't get nina because she's so young and so dependent on her still
and i'm really worried about her mental development being around my sister have you looked into any online support groups? maybe someone who's gone through something similar might have some good advice
idk what else you can do except call cps. do you know what they're like in your area, do you know for sure it won't be any use? maybe you could go down there and talk to someone in person? i know you and your mum don't really have the means to take them in but do you think your dad will be willing to have them live with him? |
brandleys;
Death Defying
Age: 28
Gender: Female
Posts: 186345 | July 25th, 2022 at 11:20pm purifying flame;:have you looked into any online support groups? maybe someone who's gone through something similar might have some good advice
idk what else you can do except call cps. do you know what they're like in your area, do you know for sure it won't be any use? maybe you could go down there and talk to someone in person? i know you and your mum don't really have the means to take them in but do you think your dad will be willing to have them live with him?
i've tried to look into it, but all across the country cps is a joke, and there's no guarantee they would take the girls away since they aren't (as far as we know) physically abused
and no, i don't think our dad would take them in, and we kind of don't want him to
in dealing with tantrums and general toddler stuff, he generally starts at a 10 with discipline, whereas we prefer to gradually increase in tone, if that makes sense
he starts off strict right away, and it tends to scare willow, and she doesn't need that |
beyond the grave;
Patron Saint of Switchblade Fights
Age: 26
Gender: Female
Posts: 65876 | July 25th, 2022 at 11:56pm brandleys;:purifying flame;:have you looked into any online support groups? maybe someone who's gone through something similar might have some good advice
idk what else you can do except call cps. do you know what they're like in your area, do you know for sure it won't be any use? maybe you could go down there and talk to someone in person? i know you and your mum don't really have the means to take them in but do you think your dad will be willing to have them live with him?
i've tried to look into it, but all across the country cps is a joke, and there's no guarantee they would take the girls away since they aren't (as far as we know) physically abused
and no, i don't think our dad would take them in, and we kind of don't want him to
in dealing with tantrums and general toddler stuff, he generally starts at a 10 with discipline, whereas we prefer to gradually increase in tone, if that makes sense
he starts off strict right away, and it tends to scare willow, and she doesn't need that yeah i thought that might be the case, i know you're on better terms with him now, but it's better to spare them from that
so maybe you just gotta keep doing what you're doing, and hope that your sister gets her shit together one day, at least a little bit
in the meantime, and even if she never does, the fact that you're in your nieces' lives is already and will be majorly beneficial for them, i think they'll be okay as long as you're there for them, it seems you're like the only stable thing in their lives atm so it's really good that they have that |
NotYourKindOfPeople
In The Murder Scene
Age: -
Gender: -
Posts: 22669 | July 26th, 2022 at 01:00am Can I ask why did you sister decide to keep them? Not that it's a mistake she did but it didn't seem like she was prepared to |
brandleys;
Death Defying
Age: 28
Gender: Female
Posts: 186345 | July 26th, 2022 at 09:17pm Celestialbloo:Can I ask why did you sister decide to keep them? Not that it's a mistake she did but it didn't seem like she was prepared to
i don't fucking know
with willow she was still with his father, so she had the expectation that he would be there
she's been broken up with him since she was like, 2 months pregnant with maggie and now he's in prison again
we have no idea why she decided to get pregnant again, considering all the shit we already had to deal with |
brandleys;
Death Defying
Age: 28
Gender: Female
Posts: 186345 | July 26th, 2022 at 09:18pm purifying flame;:yeah i thought that might be the case, i know you're on better terms with him now, but it's better to spare them from that
so maybe you just gotta keep doing what you're doing, and hope that your sister gets her shit together one day, at least a little bit
in the meantime, and even if she never does, the fact that you're in your nieces' lives is already and will be majorly beneficial for them, i think they'll be okay as long as you're there for them, it seems you're like the only stable thing in their lives atm so it's really good that they have that
the only issue with me is that i often get talked over
boundaries i try to set get stomped all over by my mother so willow doesn't listen to me as much
it's not as bad as it used to be but it's quite frustrating |
brandleys;
Death Defying
Age: 28
Gender: Female
Posts: 186345 | August 4th, 2022 at 04:47pm dead to the world always makes me so happy |
brandleys;
Death Defying
Age: 28
Gender: Female
Posts: 186345 | August 4th, 2022 at 04:57pm brandleys;: dead to the world always makes me so happy
energize me is another one |
vermin
Thinking Happy Thoughts
Age: 28
Gender: Male
Posts: 496 | August 10th, 2022 at 12:24pm hello fellow forum friends |
brandleys;
Death Defying
Age: 28
Gender: Female
Posts: 186345 | August 10th, 2022 at 08:37pm vermuda:hello fellow forum friends
こんにちは！ |
vermin
Thinking Happy Thoughts
Age: 28
Gender: Male
Posts: 496 | August 11th, 2022 at 11:39am brandleys;:vermuda:hello fellow forum friends
こんにちは！
ooo Japanese, i tried to learn but hiragana was tough for me to memorize |
brandleys;
Death Defying
Age: 28
Gender: Female
Posts: 186345 | August 15th, 2022 at 12:18am vermuda:ooo Japanese, i tried to learn but hiragana was tough for me to memorize
i had a lot of fun learning both kana
and unpopular opinion but i also really enjoy studying kanji
i've been studying sort of off and on since spring 2020, i take classes at college
but i've kinda slowed down because of depression and shit but i still love it |
NotYourKindOfPeople
In The Murder Scene
Age: -
Gender: -
Posts: 22669 | August 21st, 2022 at 04:00pm |
