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Carrie White
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September 16th, 2007 at 01:18am
^that'd be smart too, but men have too much pride(trust me i know) and she'd have to fight for it. i forgot about vasectomy's DX, should've put it in.

but still if they don't want anymore kids tie them or lose the sperm. getting abortions for that reason is dumb.
Carrie White
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September 16th, 2007 at 01:20am
oh yea, no swearing, i agree but lets keep this as gentle as possible, this thread is already on thin ice.
ChildVision
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September 16th, 2007 at 01:22am
One of my friends is cathlic and that kinda sucks becuase she says she is not supposed to use birth control OR get abortions.
So what are they supposed to do? Continue to have a million kids?
Oh btw her family has seven kids

Wait...Why is it on thin ice?
Carrie White
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September 16th, 2007 at 01:29am
^ due to spam, breaking the rules, and hostile comments. this thread gets the most heat.

Catholic? I'm Catholic, and birth control is perfectly fine with my family, abortions my family believes if they're truly necessary. is her family really religious or something?

if she cant have either one she needs to be REALLY careful if she doesn't want to have a kid yet.
ChildVision
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September 16th, 2007 at 01:33am
Yea she is like...a sheit catholic
Sorry if that offended you but...
She really is

Ok i'm am going to spam beware and going to sound incredibly stupid: How do you put a signature in

Sorry!
Carrie White
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September 16th, 2007 at 01:38am
no its fine, i'm not offended. i still dont get that, all birth control does is bring on a period, how can they be against that?
ChildVision
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September 16th, 2007 at 01:48am
I think they think that its like...Taking away a patential (i know i'm a crappy speller!)
Baby and thats a form of killing...
I dont know it's very weird
Carrie White
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September 16th, 2007 at 02:11am
^but a baby hasnt even been conceived yet.
oh well.
Rhys Webb
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September 16th, 2007 at 04:28am
Girl next door:
^but a baby hasnt even been conceived yet.
oh well.

and that is one of the biggest arguments in abortions, correct?
i believe that a baby is a life though it is not yet born, but i am not going to stop a woman from having an abortion considering it is her life... and not yours.
Carrie White
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September 16th, 2007 at 08:17am
^no with abortions its a embryo and has been conceived, with birth control it prevents a child from being conceived.

i cant stop a woman before getting a abortion either. but i do wish that women would see abortions through someone else's eyes and see what it is through a different viewpoint.
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September 16th, 2007 at 09:12am
^^
but in relation to getting an abortion - their decisions rests on THEIR opinons and THEIR beliefs - so what someone else believes should have no weight on their decision whatsoever.
Carrie White
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September 16th, 2007 at 09:47am
it is her decision, but i think women should think before getting it, if its way of birth control to them.
The Joker
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September 16th, 2007 at 10:26pm
If the woman doesn't want the baby, instead of having an abortion why can't she give birth to it and put it up for adoption that way people who desperately want babies but can't have them, have the chance?
thats what i believe anyway.
Simple and Clean
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September 16th, 2007 at 11:06pm
^ thing is though, there are already too many children waiting to be adopted.

And giving birth isn't like it is in the movies, either.
ChildVision
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September 17th, 2007 at 12:59am
Well...Most babies that get adopted are sure to get a nice home, unless you like..buy a baby on the black market .

But yea I do agree you say that with such ease like 'oh they should just get their child adopted' Yea well the pregancy is no walk in the park.
Carrie White
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September 17th, 2007 at 04:20am
^neither is high school, its just one of those things you deal with eventually. weather or not they had a abortion 98.5% of all women will go through birth, its just one of those things that is kinda inevitable.

some people choose to abort and some choose adoption, its up to the women. it matters on the situation and viewpoint.
UndyingSoul.
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September 17th, 2007 at 11:06pm
Girl next door:
Plush toy:if its rape, incest, physical, emotional, or financial, i can understand.

in America a lot of women treat abortion like birth control, where you don't have to wear a condom, and if you get pregnant you can just get a abortion. this happens a LOT where I'm from. i think that's wrong.

if your birth control failed and,with what i listed above are the reasons, you can get a abortion. but with those they're last resorts, which i understand. i just don't think its fair for women get abortions, take up appointment at a abortion clinic when someone really NEEDS that appointment, just because they decided not to take the pill or use a condom (this happens where I'm from, other people would disagree, saying this doesn't happen where they're from, but it happens a lot where i am).

i do think abortions should be legal, but women should get a abortion if they need it, not as a form of birth control.

it'd be better if the counseling happened in the US, but it doesn't. its expensive for counseling and most women cant afford it, and no one will help, and doctors just want the money.


Ok...rape, incest, physical, emotional, financial. Those are a lot. And most women who have abortions would fit into one of those categories. Financial and emotional would probably be the top two. I think that that's too many things to let off the hook for abortion, but that's just my opinion. Saying that in any of those cases its ok is like saying that its almost always ok, which in earlier posts you say you do not believe. I'm a bit confused...

(Sorry to go after one of your comments, it just stuck out to me.)
genresR4losers
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September 17th, 2007 at 11:13pm
wow... i stay off the web for a few days and come back to find that the conversation has gone full cirlce...

i think abortion is wrong... NO MATTER WHAT. there are always other options... end of story.... no room for arguments.
Girl Anachronism
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September 17th, 2007 at 11:14pm
I'm not really sure on my opinion. I think it's wrong and honestly... it's MURDER. If you WERE raped or it was incest, I guess I could KIND or understand. But if not, adoption, I think, is best. Theres TONS of people in the world who can't have children for some reason or another and adoption is really their only option at having a family. And most people who adopt want a baby. And thats why I think it's wrong to get an abortion because theirs people out there who can't have them, and would die to have a baby of their own. But like I said, I can fully understand the whole 'raped-when-i-was-12' thing or the whole 'i'll-die-if-i-have-this-baby' thing also. I guess it just depends on the situation really.
UndyingSoul.
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September 17th, 2007 at 11:21pm
genresR4losers:
wow... i stay off the web for a few days and come back to find that the conversation has gone full cirlce...

i think abortion is wrong... NO MATTER WHAT. there are always other options... end of story.... no room for arguments.


Same here.

For me you could have been raped, you could be 12, your baby could be retarded. Thats no reason to murder another human life. I don't think there are any excuses for abortion. We should not have the power of life and death. Simple as that.