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January 29th, 2007 at 01:51pm
Tickle Me Sara:
One of my best friends is totally opposite of being against rape.
She truthfully wants to get raped.
Like she's dead serious about it.
I've gotten used the fact she wants to get raped.
It kind of doesn't shock me that she wants it.
Her life is a living hell. She's seen everything, I mean everything
bad there is to see in this world. Not only has she seen it, but she's been
through it.
Random fact....anyways.


I'll point something out.
Example of a girl most likely to be raped
This girl in my grade Devin. She's a very sexually active girl, almost to the scale of a slut.
Her myspace has some very revealing pictures of some certain areas.
My point is, all these 12, 13, 16, 20, 29 year-old girls/woman who are
flaunting around strutting their "stuff" to all these over aged desperate men
are asking for rape.
They don't respect there selves one bit. And all those stories on the T.V.
about some 14 year-old girl who was kidnapped and raped because the
"evil internet" caused some random ass guy to
track her down and then force her to talk to him over the internet, then
finally raping her.
But see these people just go on blaming the man for raping her, and the
internet for making it possible for him to contact her. When if the girl
could have just as easily not have talked to the man. She didn't have
to be on the internet. And another thing, what did the girl say to make that
man want her? Did she cyber with him? Most likely. Did she show him a
few pictures of her self, one containing her dressed up as a little hoe and
the other of her vagina and boobs? Probably. Did she tell the man where she lives?
You could bet money on that.
That's asking for rape. Maybe not intentionally, but it is.

There's other times where the man is just a effing psycho, desperate, again psycho.
There are those times where you can't help anything, except to watch out for yourself.


I don't think your friend really understands the meaning of rape. She probally believed it will be exciting, when really it will be scaring.
I agree with the other people, in she needs to talk to someone about WHY she wants to be raped.
druscilla.
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January 29th, 2007 at 06:57pm
I firmly believe that you can't ask to be raped.
Unless you walk up to someone and say "will you please rape me"?
It's your freaking body.
You should be proud of it.
A guy shoving his penis between your legs is his fault.
sass attack.
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January 29th, 2007 at 07:37pm
druscilla_way:
I firmly believe that you can't ask to be raped.
Unless you walk up to someone and say "will you please rape me"?
It's your freaking body.
You should be proud of it.
A guy shoving his penis between your legs is his fault.


i completely agree;
Sure people dress inappropriately, but most of the time the offender picks someone who looks vulnerable or is in a vulnerable situation.
Jeffree Star
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January 30th, 2007 at 12:10pm
Gym Class Hero:
PassionBetweenLovers:
What happens if you get pregnant after rape should you keep the baby?
Do you consider telling the baby when they're older that their father was a rapist?


I would keep the baby.
I believe it deserves to live, even if it were the result of something bad.

Or course rape is wrong, but a life doesn't need to be killed because of it.
It's a life you're dealing with.
If you don't want the baby, there are plenty of foster parents who are willing to love the child as their own.
The baby is better off living than dying.

I read an article where a woman was raped and she kept the baby.
The child wondered why she was different from all her other siblings and when she was old enough her parents told her how she was conceived.
She now understands what happened and knew it was wrong.

Yea I would keep the child 2 but how would i tell it that it's dad was a rapist?


Amelia rly.
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January 30th, 2007 at 02:47pm
Yara; wtf...:
THIS THREAD IS NOT ASKING IF YOU'RE AGAINST RAPE.
We're all against rape. Any "I'm against it" posts will be deleted.
It's asking why you think it happens, and what can be done to prevent it.
Well said.
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January 31st, 2007 at 03:40am
The only person who can prevent rape is yourself.A girl never asks to be raped but she can do things that will make it more likely to happen to her.
Girls need to be careful.They dont realise that the guy they are talking to on the net who says hes an 18yo blond is most likely a 50yo pervert trying to get her into bed and rape her.
BE CAREFUL!!
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January 31st, 2007 at 07:29am
druscilla_way

"I firmly believe that you can't ask to be raped.
Unless you walk up to someone and say "will you please rape me"?
It's your freaking body.
You should be proud of it.
A guy shoving his penis between your legs is his fault."


I agree! Also you can't prevent rape, just like you can't prevent murder. I wish that there was a prevention, but there isn't. There are some sick people out there who do it because they really are not right in the head. I don't think it is ever a girl or guys fault if they are raped.
ctroy92
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January 31st, 2007 at 07:32pm
I don't think girls should wear stuff that is revealing it is just sickening.. i mean in old days they could reveal a leg now all of a sudden it is alright to show such disgusting pictures of yourself... sure i'm 14 but i don't want guys looking at me like i'm an object i want to be a person.. R E S P E C T that is what i want! respect older people they are more wiser then you like Yara.... but i mean girls get drunk which isn't right at all like under aged people.. WAHT HAS THE WORLD GONE TO??? our generations presidnet is going to be a slut... Guys look at girls all the time like sexually and it is very wrong sick... THIS IS A SICK WORLD
ctroy92
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February 1st, 2007 at 11:04am
ctroy92:
I don't think girls should wear stuff that is revealing it is just sickening.. i mean in old days they could reveal a leg now all of a sudden it is alright to show such disgusting pictures of yourself... sure i'm 14 but i don't want guys looking at me like i'm an object i want to be a person.. R E S P E C T that is what i want! respect older people they are more wiser then you like Yara.... but i mean girls get drunk which isn't right at all like under aged people.. WAHT HAS THE WORLD GONE TO??? our generations presidnet is going to be a slut... Guys look at girls all the time like sexually and it is very wrong sick... THIS IS A SICK WORLD
Nothing going right in this world i'm at school right now i saw like 60 girls with tiny skirts on it is wrong... the guys look at them like a subject not a person and even some of those girls are smart...sickening i mean if they want to wear it fine no problem with me but do they want guys really looking at them like that?? I want to see intelligent not...slutty.... most of the friends i have that are girls wear all black. i guess that is just my type of friend i gtg (BACK TO SCHOOL WORK AGAIN)
HaleyRevanssi
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February 1st, 2007 at 04:08pm
druscilla_way:
I firmly believe that you can't ask to be raped.
Unless you walk up to someone and say "will you please rape me"?
It's your freaking body.
You should be proud of it.
A guy shoving his penis between your legs is his fault.


Totally agree. And for some reason, when I read the last line I started laughing...
Guys are sucky =[
xXxim-not-okayxXx
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February 2nd, 2007 at 01:21pm
hating-amber:
The only person who can prevent rape is yourself.A girl never asks to be raped but she can do things that will make it more likely to happen to her.
Girls need to be careful.They dont realise that the guy they are talking to on the net who says hes an 18yo blond is most likely a 50yo pervert trying to get her into bed and rape her.
BE CAREFUL!!


you cant always prevent rape. i-woz raped. i woz on holiday, and i was walking to the toilets and a guy dragged me into his shop. i dont know how i could of prevented that.

that was 6months ago, and im torn apart. both mentally and physically. i cant have anyone touch me, i have scars and-i woz pregnant.


no-one asks for that.
Jeffree Star
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March 1st, 2007 at 12:03pm
xXxim-not-okayxXx:
hating-amber:
The only person who can prevent rape is yourself.A girl never asks to be raped but she can do things that will make it more likely to happen to her.
Girls need to be careful.They dont realise that the guy they are talking to on the net who says hes an 18yo blond is most likely a 50yo pervert trying to get her into bed and rape her.
BE CAREFUL!!


you cant always prevent rape. i-woz raped. i woz on holiday, and i was walking to the toilets and a guy dragged me into his shop. i dont know how i could of prevented that.

that was 6months ago, and im torn apart. both mentally and physically. i cant have anyone touch me, i have scars and-i woz pregnant.


no-one asks for that.


I feel for you honey, but this is not a pity thread. Rape can destroy many things. Your hopes , dreams, emotional self esteem. Yeah on here they sometimes don't want you to put personal business, okay? Just trying to watch out for you.
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March 4th, 2007 at 08:59am
druscilla_way:
I firmly believe that you can't ask to be raped.
Unless you walk up to someone and say "will you please rape me"?
It's your freaking body.
You should be proud of it.
A guy shoving his penis between your legs is his fault.


Thank you! I've heard many times that if a girl dresses skimpy than she's asking to be raped. Pardon my lack of better words but that's bullshit. I say nearly exactly what druscilla just typed. I've almost been raped I had strong enough legs to kick the kid where it hurts and push him off me. I was lucky...I'm very thankful I was so lucky. I don't want to go into detail but yeah. Thank you for saying that druscilla.
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March 4th, 2007 at 12:59pm
rape is wrong you should go to prsion for at least five years and then you've had your punishment
jedicam10
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March 6th, 2007 at 09:05pm
Okay...

About the girl wanting to be raped, it's not rape if she wants it. It's consensual.
Fezzik
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March 6th, 2007 at 10:32pm
^Well some people have rape fantasies. It gets them off to imagine being totally powerless. So they want it, but only because they wouldn't be consenting.
druscilla.
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March 6th, 2007 at 10:34pm
Resurgam:
^Well some people have rape fantasies. It gets them off to imagine being totally powerless. So they want it, but only because they wouldn't be consenting.

If it's a sexual fantasy, it's sometimes called "consensual rape".
Like, if I wanted my boyfriend to "rape" me, but I tell him I want him to then act like he's attacking me, that's "consensual rape".
It's a sexual fantasy, not a violent crime.
Fezzik
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March 6th, 2007 at 10:43pm
^Right it's not a crime...but it's not consensual? Err, I don't know how to explain what I mean. But basically, you can want to be raped (which makes it consensual), but without it being consensual...because that makes it rape.

Okay, I'm just going to stop now.
alexander
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March 6th, 2007 at 11:00pm
I think rape is mostly commited for one reason..power...take over that person and the rapist has power. Its my opinion. No
jedicam10
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March 6th, 2007 at 11:07pm
Or being unfulfilled for too long.