Rape
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| Mindfuck Always Born a Crime  Age: - Gender: Female Posts: 5614 | Girl next door: What the hell? No one has a right to touch anyone innappropriately, regardless of whether they're "walking alone at night" or not. Sure, statistically speaking, a woman who walks alone at night might be more at risk, but there is no way in hell that a man [or anyone else] has the right to rape her / sexually assault her. |
| Pilgrim. Salute You in Your Grave  Age: - Gender: Female Posts: 2159 | Girl next door: Erm, yes, he would. You keep hearing these stories about women being raped in public parks in broad daylight. If a man is sick enough to sexually assault a woman, he might not give a damn on where or when he does it. |
| sweet disposition. Banned  Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 48272 | I think when broad daylight is mentioned, I think they mean broad daylight PLUS the public. |
| xxWolvenPrincessxx Joining The Black Parade  Age: 36 Gender: Female Posts: 200 | Women are going to dress the way we like...and NO we are not asking to be to be raped. I was raped at 14 and I know how it is. |
| IceHog69 Bulletproof Heart  Age: 32 Gender: - Posts: 25232 | Where I live, is a pretty crappy area, and most of the women have gotten into the habit of carrying pa's with them. I don't think anyone deserves to be raped, you know? I think that women should be able to wander around in short shirts, thongs, corset tops, you name it, and men should have the self control not to drag them into an alley, and rape the shite out of them. No matter how revealing an outfit is, people should be able to control their lust for sex. If you really really need to have sex, try your lover, or go to a prostitute, if you need rough sex, find a woman with a rape fantasy at one of those strange fetishists that are always in the paper. I know this sounds cruel, but I almost think that a young child being raped is better than a teenager or an adult, because kids forget so much. I'm not talking about a 7 year, I'm talking about a 3 year old or what ever. I know it is disgusting, and it horrifies me more than hearing about the 27 year old, it horrifies me to the point of tears and vomit, but I can't remember what happened when I was 3, other than that there were sunflowers through the window. A three year old isn't going to be terrified to leave the house for the rest of their lives. It is terrible, and disgusting, and inhuman, but at least it wont be a vivid memory for them. At least they can live their life, not knowing about it. Please don't attack me for saying that, can you see where I'm trying to come from? It is worse than 'adult' rape because the kid can't've done somethng to provoke it, and they can't defend themselves, but at least they wont remember it too well. At least they can grow up as a normal kid, and have a normal life, rather than be terrified of going out, and afraid of being alone. I know things like that stay in a kids subconcious and will affect them, but not all the time. |
| blow Bleeding on the Floor  Age: - Gender: Female Posts: 1137 | ChipmunkOnKetamine: Even if the child didn't exactly remember it they would still be scared for life. Studies show that your personality is set by the time you are six, if something like that happened when you where three you would be screwed for life. A 27 year old can get help, and hopefully come to terms with it and understand that it was in no way their fault. |
| John St. John Shotgun Sinner  Age: 32 Gender: Male Posts: 7145 | Eponine: Plus to rape a child would seriously damage the childs insides. I mean sure it would probably hurt an adult but an adult is properly developed. When a child is raped there insides are literally ravaged. By no means am I saying it is right to rape an adult by the way. |
| IceHog69 Bulletproof Heart Age: 32 Gender: - Posts: 25232 | I know they would be scared by life, and I know that a kids personality is set up by the time they are 6, and I know that they will be damaged inside, but I would rather not remember something than be haunted by it for the rest of my life. I just feel that not knowing something is better. This is simply on the not knowing front. I know the damage it does to a kids insides, and I know that it screws a kids mind up. |
| blow Bleeding on the Floor Age: - Gender: Female Posts: 1137 | ChipmunkOnKetamine: How is it better to be completely screwed up and not know why? Also I doubt the parent(s) or guardian(s) would never tell the kid. And who says they won't remember it? They could. |
| Go fuck yourself Devil's Got Your Number  Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 37823 | love and monsters.:Ok, where I live in the past so many months there was a guy who has attempted to rape many girl in BROAD DAYLIGHT and IN PUBLIC he would ride his skateboard and hit them with it as he tried to touch them. Does it make it anyless worse if it is at night or during the day? I hate how people throw the word "rape" around so much, it really isn't a thing to laugh at, and if when your a victam and people scream "rape" as a joke, that is hard. heres a pretty great example of how people feel after they are raped. |
| Go fuck yourself Devil's Got Your Number Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 37823 | Eponine:I agree, if something happened to you, wouldn't you want to know? Wouldn't you want an explantion why your messed up? You could try to block it ouy of your mind, or turn a blind eye, but someday it will catch up to you. Thats what heppened in a book called The Perks of Being A Wallflower, this kid is messed up and he doesn't know why, then he realizes his aunt had molusted him when he was little. His parents didn't know, and he was like 5 or 6 when it happened, but when it finally surfaced, he was not just ok with it |
| thank fsm. In The Murder Scene  Age: 37 Gender: Female Posts: 20564 | Chipmunk, I understand where you're coming from completely. But on the other hand, consider this: So the child is raped and maybe they are physically okay after a while, in a perfect world (well in a perfect world it wouldn't happen but plz entertain me for a second). They suppress the memory, mom and/or dad move on, it's fine, whatever. Then as they get older they start to wonder for some reason and somehow, it comes out that this happened. Well, why the HELL didn't mom/dad tell them?! Why didn't anyone tell them or take care of them?! They can't talk to anyone about it and they're so angry and they just hate their parents, and now their partner is ready to have sex and they are just too afraid to do it and they have nobody to talk to... So as you can see that may not work out as well as you might suppose. I've been on the Poost Secret Community a lot lately and there are many people there who had that same experience, as well as some people who have that aversion to sex and wonder if, somehow, there's something they suppressed that no one's told them about. It can be scarier in some ways, worse. |
| blow Bleeding on the Floor Age: - Gender: Female Posts: 1137 | My Dear Delirious: The same sort of thing happened where I live as well. Girls where getting abducted during the daytime and in very public places. Rape can happen anywhere at anytime. |
| Go fuck yourself Devil's Got Your Number Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 37823 | it can and it can go so unknown, and it completely undoes your whole world. The victum gets so guilty and just so many things that they wouldn't feel if it never had happened |
| sinking feeling Thinking Happy Thoughts  Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 535 | one of my best friends friend got raped a couple weeks ago and she was wearing jeans and a tshirt. also this lady who got raped came to my school and told us her story and she said that visited a prison b/c she was telling her story to the prisoners. she said that she talked to one guy who was in prison for rape and he said that if he saw two women walking down the street and one of the girls was wearing a short red dress and the other was wearing some raggedy outfit that he would rape the one in the raggedy outfit b/c she would be "easier" |
| Go fuck yourself Devil's Got Your Number Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 37823 | well, ok I use to be wrong, I use to think that its not so bad if you are wearing clothes that "is asking to be raped" no one should ever be raped. Regardles of what they wear |
| bat1984 Bleeding on the Floor  Age: 40 Gender: Female Posts: 1885 | If the person was raped sometimes permission is given whist drunk or high and after wards they cry rape but this is few and far unfortunately real rapes are not always treated they way they should the victims are often not given much help |
| nevergetmealive Joining The Black Parade  Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 226 | i dont think anyone is asking for rape, its a terrible thing, and men should hyave enough control over their lust. when you think about what people are saying about wearing revealing clothes and being drunk causing rape, its not true. rapists are perverts and fantasise about a women (or man) nomatter what they are wearing or if they are drunk or sober. i know this sounds bad, but if you come across a rapist no matter what your wearing there's a high chance youre gonna get raped, its in their nature no matter what circumstances. |
| Ierosistible Killjoy  Age: 59 Gender: Female Posts: 54 | I haven't read every single page of this thread, but here are my two cents. Rape is not about sex. It's about control. No one asks for it - no one should be raped. EVER. It crosses gender lines - any gender can rape any gender. It is not always done by a stranger, it's more frequently done by someone familiar. There are far more rapes done than you actually hear about - and frequently the victim is afraid to speak because it's someone they know. |
| John St. John Shotgun Sinner Age: 32 Gender: Male Posts: 7145 | Ierosistible: I dont get this.. What are the 'Gender Lines'?  |
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