Family
| Author | Message |
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| HEARRTXX Fabulous Killjoy  Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 109 | If your having problems with your family go to talk to them about it! |
| TaraIsBack! Bleeding on the Floor  Age: 45 Gender: Female Posts: 1618 | Everyone has disagreements, it comes with the territory. In a perfect world tho, people wouldn't be disrespectful of each other. I believe in standing up for yourself, but also being compassionate. Sometimes people say things they don't mean. You should try to forgive as much as they should try not to hurt again in the future. |
| The Joker Salute You in Your Grave  Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 2482 | i think all families are different... theres no way to make a family "be close" because everyone has boundaries. some people like giving out hugs some don't etc Some people like their own space some don't so there is no "perfect family" without a fight and argument here and there.. I just think parents shouldn't stay together for the kids, if they're unhappy don't drag it out any longer then it needs to be. |
| Sex and Candy Salute You in Your Grave  Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 2160 | The only close people to me in my family is my sister (20) and my older brother (30) (Half brother and sister) . otherwise im like a stranger to the rest. yes its true, everyone in a family fights, I especially fight when they go into my room and take my stuff. |
| The Almighty Bert Always Born a Crime  Age: 30 Gender: Female Posts: 6773 | Every family is different. Most family's I know fight, I know mine does. But even family's that fight can be close. You can not make a family "close" some are some are not. It's strange actually most family's with a boy and a girl, or something like that normally dont fight as much as when they have two girls or two boys, girls more than boys. |
| Miracles. Joining The Black Parade Age: - Gender: Female Posts: 243 | As it's been said, every family is different. As for mine...they're close. Except for me. But I try not to get too involved. Don't get me wrong, I love my family; but I have serious issues with my siblings. The ordinary conversation between us goes something like this. Sibling: The emo's come out of her room. Me: F*** off. Sibling: Oh so terrifying. and yeah, thats it. |
| sweet disposition. Banned  Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 48272 | I think it's nice to be close to your family, and to have one at all, it's in a way more sturdy than friendships. However, if you really dislike say, your mum or dad, and they're truly a horrible person and you know you don't need them in your life, then why stay in contact? And it is okkay to fight - it shows you care. |
| a line in a song. Salute You in Your Grave  Age: 30 Gender: Female Posts: 3762 | You should be close to your family because you might need them in the future and if you're in a really bad feud with your own flesh and blood, you wno't have anything to lean back to when you get older. If you fight, that's a good thing. But if you regulary fight about the smallest things, the relationship's not so healthy. |
| blastoise Killjoy  Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 15 | Hm, I don't know what has happened to me and my family. I just don't talk to them anymore. It feels like I don't have energy left to care about them. Now when I write it, it sounds terrible. I don't know what to do. They've become strangers to me. |
| sherlock! Crash Queen  Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 30830 | My family and I are okay. My parents are a bit against my music, and we fight SOMETIMES, but I still really love them. We even took a retreat before for family enrichment. It was kind of weird, but we got to tell each other how we felt there, and I got to tell them what I found unfair, and, you know, they were totally okay with that. |
| Bob_n_Me_4Ever Fabulous Killjoy Age: - Gender: Female Posts: 130 | I dont talk to my parents anymore they crushed my dreams and didnt even say sorry about it |
| Ghostgirl191 Jazz Hands  Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 288 | of course its okay to fight with your family every now and then your family just like you fight with your friends every now and then, it happens. its better for families to be close, i agree, but they door swings both ways. my family isnt so close anymore. we were a family of 4 and its become a family of 2. my oldest brother moved out and he's become a different person. and as for me, i dont feel like i belong in my family, i know every teen must say this, but they just dont get me. and my mom defends my brother all the time but never me. over the summer she was going to send me to live with my aunt over a fight my brother started. and my mom has even told me that i dont fit in, she says it in a joking way so that she can tell the truth without being 'serious' one night the 3 of us got into a huge fight and i ran to my room and slammed the door. my brother came in there and wouldnt leave me alone, i kept screaming at him to get out, and finally my mom made him, and after i closed my door i heard my mom say "just let her cry in her room like she always does" i love my mom, but i dont think she loves me nearly as much as my brother and it hurts knowing that, and i try to fit in with them, but i dont think i should change for my family to love me. and my brother has hit me on more than 1 occasion, its usually every time we fight, and when i hit back, or defend myself, i get in trouble. but never him. its always my fault. |
| Coin.Operated.Toy Killjoy  Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 64 | the only problem in my family is we do not open up with each other that much. we don't share problems, greet each other or ask them about their day. you know, we're not CLOSE. and that's not positive, i guess. |
| billy gaga. Salute You in Your Grave  Age: 30 Gender: Female Posts: 3177 | Every family is different. I think people can be upset by the fact that their family isn't what they think it should be, in terms of the stereotype of a perfect family and things. I think a family should be whatever way they want, as long as they are happy. Of course, its nice for your family to always support you in everything you do, and for them to take an interest in your life, but its not needed to make you happy, so its okay if your family members don't. I think it's wrong when family members upset you, and force you into things you don't want to do, like for an extreme example, prositution, because thats unfair. Although, it can be called for, like if they force you to study, at least half an hour each week day, because they want you to get good grades, because even if it feels unfair, and you fall out with them over it, they still have your best interests at heart, (as bad, and cliche as it sounds), and its not harming you in any way. |
| skitty. In the Cannibal Glow  Age: - Gender: - Posts: 51832 | i think that a family isn't reality without a couple of fights no one is perfect and u can't expect life to go exactly as u want it to family's going to fight like the other day, my dad called me Fat...and he still hasnt apoligized |
| ragdollx.x Killjoy  Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 47 | Family should be there for you, and a couple of fights will be normal. But if your family fights ALL the time, then they just become a bunch of people that you can never talk to about your problems or about anything that's going on in your life...which can eventually become mentally deadly. |
| Littlemisschem Fabulous Killjoy  Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 129 | It's natural for families to fight, and actually, that's what makes them closer. Every member of your family should be able to rely on each other because that's what they're there for. |
| Cherokee Banned  Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 2300 | lemmi tell you what happened to me. well, I was still a young gal, pretty young. my mother was like a beast to me, at least that's how she treated me. when I grew up a lil bit I found out why she was this way, it was never her fault, nor was it mine. but still we never got to be close. I wanna get the hell out of mid east, and never come back. it's my dream I aint gonna give it up for a mother that hardly showed me any love! listen pumpkin, familes are gonna love each other, wether the members of it like it or not! |
| sofitegan Killjoy  Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 33 | Well... families will always fight. The important thing is that they still love and respect each other. IMO. |
| we are broken. Salute You in Your Grave  Age: 28 Gender: Female Posts: 3397 | my family fights all the time over everything it sucks and i feel like they resent me. i dont know what to do my parents keep talking about a devorce but it probably wont happen. i dont know if i love them or not but i love my sister and we are really close.if it wasnt for her i would not be here. |
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