Family

I think its important families are close... but it is okay to argue sometimes, its bound to happen especially living with someone.

But when argues happen all the time and families arent close then its bad... your always gunna need your family. So being on bad terms arent gonna help.

I get on with my parents okay ish... but i wish we were closer, especially with my dad...we hardly do things as a family, we mostly keep to are selves. its kinda lonely but i know they love me

But my brothers, well its weird... with one i get on completely well, when hes here that is... and the other we hardly ever speak to each other, but he does have depression so maybe thats it. but we used to be very close and got on well. it sucks

I cant really talk to them about this though. I cant demand my parents to not work so i see them more, it couldnt happen

So to me its very important to get along with your family. Your with them most of the time if you live with them. And they are people you can really trust.

Why on earth has this been bumped?

I hear the expressions "Blood is thicker than water" and "Well, s/he's FAMILY" quite a bit from people who have nightmare relatives. In my opinion, nobody should have to put up with a toxic person, related or not.

my grandma was a real dominator she controlled everything so ask my dad to let stay with her in her house and she raised me by herself ... i was 8 years or maybe less she didn't stop telling me that my mom and my sis hate me and she always defeated me against my mom and she ruin the hole relashion between me and mother , and sister. but by the time i started to find out how that was wrong and i find out how much hate has grown between me and my mum i dont know what to do really i need anyb help i really used to cry alone remebering every thing happened between us im a really bad girl i told my mom that i hate her but thats was my feeling in the past i dont know how to fix it do you have any clue pls .

Family is a part of who you are, good or bad. It is good to be close but all families are different. As long as you tell the difference between abuse and the normal fighting that occurs in any relationship. It sucks to be on the abuse side but its great to have a mother you can always talk to or a brother you can always rely on to know how you feel at a single glance or a father who can always cheer you up.