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Dunedin, New Zealand

Member since May 25th, 2008



After finally getting out of an abusive marriage (mentally, physically, & emotionally), in which I was manipulated and controlled two years ago, I am finally ready to get out there and meet other people. Me having friends was rather frowned upon during my marriage, and am getting a tad sick of my own company.

It's been a damn hard road to get to where I am now, but thankfully I can see the light at the end of the tunnel, and feel a LOT stronger than I did a couple of years ago. I have five children, although have given birth to 6 (my first died of Cot Death when he was 2 months old). Their ages are 25, 16, 14, and 13 yr old twins. Life can be rather busy!!!!

I love computers and learning all that they are capable of, and also fix, build, and upgrade them, although not for my job or anything. I do enjoy going for walks in the bush (as long as they're not too long!), walks along the beach, and just bugging out occasionally.

I do smoke, but don't drink alcohol, and have never even been tiddly in my whole life ~ just can't stand the taste of the stuff. I can have a good time without it anyway! In the near future, I am planning on trying to quit smoking, as I am sick of how it is affecting my health.

I love cats, not a great fan of dogs, and have two cats at the moment ~ Smoo and Saphyre. I enjoy quiet evenings at home, and am not into the whole club scene at all.

Can't think what else to write at the moment, but will add more later if necessary.

Hopefully chat you soon!


  • Photo #11414

    My Brother, who died in 2004 as the result of a Motocross Accident.

  • Photo #11413

    My Dad, who died when I was 15 in 1979

  • Photo #11412

    My Son, Matthew ~ 6 May 1980 to 3 July 1980


  • PLAGUE X_x

    Hey long time no talk, - by the way its PLAGUE from Mibba. we spoke ages ago in mibba chat :)

    PLAGUE X_x, October 29th, 2008 at 06:24:41pm

  • Burnout

    your pretty awesome

    Burnout, June 25th, 2008 at 01:25:10am

  • Tikva

    Many thanks to 'Converse All Stars', 'Chuck' and 'ChipmunkonKetamine' for your welcome and comments ~ "offers her hand to shake to you all". Oh, and thank you for the compliments (talking sense, etc.)! Sometimes age and experience does have it's advantages :)

    EeVie ~ I have sent you a PM, and anyone here is more than welcome to PM me anytime.

    Tikva, June 8th, 2008 at 08:13:51am

  • IceHog69

    oh, wow, I thought you'd been around her for much longer, cause you talk so much sense (that's a compliment btw), so Hi! *offers hand to shake* (you have to do these things properly you know)

    IceHog69, June 4th, 2008 at 11:30:25am

  • Harlequinn

    Hello. I noticed that u were giving a lot of really good advice to ppl on the personal questions thread and well... I was wondering if I cud talk to u? (I always feel weird posting a my problems on the thread)
    But I'm going through some tough times and need someone to talk to.

    Harlequinn, June 2nd, 2008 at 02:07:14am

  • John St. John

    Hey there :]

    Welcome to INO! Im sure you'll fit in just fine :]

    PM me to talk whenever you feel like : D

    John St. John, May 30th, 2008 at 05:52:22pm

  • ziggy stardust;

    Hey, welcome to INO (:
    It's a great site, PM me anytime if you need anything (:

    xoxo Evie.

    ziggy stardust;, May 30th, 2008 at 02:58:06pm

  • Tikva

    Zacky V. - no problem at all. I only hope that I actually WAS a help! Hang in there, and remember, they don't call the teenage years hell for nothing! PM me if you ever need to, and stay true to yourself.

    And hello to you also, 'Very Much Alive' :)

    Tikva, May 30th, 2008 at 10:01:29am

  • Day Of The Dead

    Heya! Welcome to INO!!
    I hope you enjoy being on here, it's great.
    PM me anythime. :)
    x x x x

    Day Of The Dead, May 30th, 2008 at 09:22:29am

  • jonas erik altberg.

    Haii, thanks for helping me on my ''girl problem'

    jonas erik altberg., May 30th, 2008 at 09:04:50am

  • Tikva

    Hi to you both, and thanks for the welcome!

    Tikva, May 27th, 2008 at 06:11:43am

  • inactive account


    inactive account, May 26th, 2008 at 09:22:12am

  • The Creature

    Welcome to INO. =]

    The Creature, May 25th, 2008 at 02:32:47pm

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