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fun ghoul
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fun ghoul
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September 2nd, 2008 at 08:56am
K guise,
this thread is like a Personal Question thread, but this thread is just for us Pinoy INOpians.
Basically, post your personal questions or problems about school, love, relatiohips, family, or just a simple question like what to wear to the JS prom..

There are rules though;
1. NO BASHING/FIGHTING
2. Post only your PQs, replies to one's question shall be sent by PM (Personal Message)
3. No posting your replies/advice on this thread, send by PM
4. Don't be afraid to share
5. No spammin'


1,2,3...K go
fun ghoul
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fun ghoul
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September 2nd, 2008 at 09:19am
Too shy to post? Tehe

Okay, I'll go first..
So, earlier today as my friends and I were going home, I saw him again. [We'll just call 'him' P].
So lately tinatanong nya kung pwede daw manligaw. Eh marami akong friends na lalake na puro ligaw lang pero wala naman meaning yun, and wala pa kong alam tungkol sa mga relationships. So sinabi kong hindi.
And every time na magkakausap kami sa YM [YM lang kami nagkakausap, di sa personal] tinatanong nya yun. Everytime naman sinasagot ko sya ng 'pagiisipan ko pa'.
Pero di ko naman sya makausap sa personal. Cry
Wala kasi akong confidence na lumapit. I confess, crush ko nga sya, pero di ko maintindihan.
Di ko na nga sya pinansin kanina, kasi kasama nya yung mga barkada nyang rockers...e nakakahiya pa naman sa mga yun.

Any advice about my problem? Pano ko sya lalapitan at kakausapin? PM me please. Waaahh. In Love
Liek teh lulz!
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September 4th, 2008 at 03:46am
hug I understand. I've been there before. Sobrang pareho ng sitwasyon.
Kaso ang nangyari kasi, na inip SIYA sa paghihintay...sabi ko kasi...mag iisip pa ako. Kaso ilang months na eh di pa rin ako makapag isip, kaya ayun, wala na Cry

I'll PM you something.
sherlock!
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sherlock!
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September 4th, 2008 at 07:04am
This'll be really short.
I have a friend who is completely and utterly annoying.
Hindi mapatahimik, salita lang nang salita.
Masama pa yung ugali niya.
Pero kung sinabi naman namin sa kanya, masasaktan siya at magagalit.
How do we tell her without just ignoring her?
Because frankly, she doesn't get the message.
Lelouch Lamperouge
Always Born a Crime
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September 4th, 2008 at 09:18am
I like -well you know- Kenaz.
Its really hard for me to approach him and just talk casually.
I only have the chance to talk to him when it is Natural Science period.
I know him since elementray, and still don't know how to do it normally.
How can I fix the problem? Crying or Very sad

I really want to talk to him.
Cry
sherlock!
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sherlock!
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September 4th, 2008 at 09:21am
^ Aliana, I don't really think there is a problem.
I know all you have to do is face your fear.
And don't be afraid of rejection, or embarassment. Just say what you have to say, clearly, and freely.
Just be cool, don't lose your head, and don't think about the consequences, or whatever might happen. Just focus on the now.
gossip girl.
Always Born a Crime
gossip girl.
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September 4th, 2008 at 09:29am
just think of him a really close friend.
as in joke joke lang ganun.
tapos before you know it magiging super close kayo.

THAT WORKED FOR ME Wink
ciara.
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ciara.
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September 4th, 2008 at 09:32am
aliana, just be cool and talk to him.
wag kang magisip ng negative na pwedeng pumigil sa yo na kausapin sya
isipin mo na lang... wala namang masama sa gagawin mo e Tehe
gossip girl.
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gossip girl.
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September 7th, 2008 at 03:45am
GUYS, i need help.

shoooot.kasi after ko manood ng blg kagabi.
we went to a party sa club.
tapos i remember drinking a lot.
as in A LOT.
tapos i remember dancing with my friends.
then sudenly hinatak ako ng friend ko papunta ng cr.
pinilit nila akong sumuka.
so sumuka ako ng madami and stuff.
tapos nakatulog ako sa tabi ng toilet,
tapos sabi ko i want to dance some more.
so sumali ako sa group na madami kami.
tapos biglang nasa cr na naman ako,
so i asked how i got there,
tapos sabi nung isa kong friend may kasayaw daw ako na guy.
as in super intimate na dance.as in magkadikit yung legs namin.
tapos nag-gagrind daw ako,
tapos yun.hindi ko daw kilala.
eh sobrang drunk ko talaga kagabi.
tapos sobrang nahihiya na ko sa mga tao kasi yun.
shooooooooot.
i never imagined that i would be THAT drunk.
tapos the next thing i remember is waking up sa bathroom floor tapos pumasok na ko sa car ng bestfriend ko.
tapos yun pagdating ko sa bahay hindi nila napansin na drunk na ko,
pero grabe yung guilt na nakipagsayaw ako ng ganun sa stranger.
gossip girl.
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gossip girl.
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September 7th, 2008 at 03:49am
it took me a while to decide if i should open up like this.
guys, trust me i'm not usually like that.
sana di niyo isipin na party girl ako.
idee fixe.
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idee fixe.
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September 7th, 2008 at 07:02am
gossip girl.:
it took me a while to decide if i should open up like this.
guys, trust me i'm not usually like that.
sana di niyo isipin na party girl ako.

S'okay.
hug
Uhm, what's done is done and you can't re-do your actions.
>< Siguro ang magagawa mo nalang, try to forget about it and learn from your mistakes. :/ Try not to get drunk at parties again. Masyado ka pang bata, mommy. Shifty2
And kung makita mo uli yung guy, try apologizing.
hug It's okay.
lorilee krizelle.
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September 7th, 2008 at 07:06am
pansy: its okay. okay lang yan. its normal for teenagers to be stoned. lmfao
just, be more careful next time. buti hangang dancing lang. paano kung, you know, naging more than that. mas magandang maging careful.
hug
Halifax.
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Halifax.
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September 8th, 2008 at 07:07am
okay, uhmm...kasi ganito yuun! pag nakakatabi ko siya o kung malapit siya, hindi ako makapagsalit palagi!! super nervous ko pag malapit lang siya...ngayun sabi niya "be myself" raw at magsalita daw ako kahit andun siya... eh di ko yun magawa!!!! di lang talaga ako makapgsalita pag andun siya! lmfao [weird ba??!] and the people teasing us don't help!!! waaa anu ba to parang ang imaature ng problema xDD
Liek teh lulz!
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September 9th, 2008 at 01:36am
Ako rin naman eh...hmmm, masasanay ka na lang nyan. Siyampre ngayon na hihiya ka pa, pero pag nagtagal yan...di ka na mahihiya :]
decode.
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decode.
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September 17th, 2008 at 07:08am
i've pondering this one for a long time now pero hindi ko pa rin alam ang sagot...

tama ba na maging weird ang feeling ko pag nagkaron na ng lovelife ang friend ko? i know i have to be happy for him and her but there's this feeling inside me na parang ayoko din. kasi natatakot ako na may magbago between samin ng friend ko since magkakaroon na siya ng taong mas special kesa sakin.
well, this happened to me thrice na.
nung sinabi ng close friend kong girl na may ka-MU na siya, i really cried myself to sleep. well, that was years ago na.
ngayon, 2 of my friends, one guy and one girl. they both found the love of their lives. and sometimes, i'm just forcing myself to be happy for them. ayoko na ngang pag-uusapan yung mga love life nila kasi ayoko marinig. and naiinis ako na wala na lang ibang binabanggit yung girl na friend ko kundi yung name ng boyfriend niya.
am i being selfish? am i that bad?
fun ghoul
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fun ghoul
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October 1st, 2008 at 02:38am
grabe, i have a slightly serious problem and i really wanna help my friend, she has been my friend since last year and inseparable kami..

so this is what happened,
joan is getting worse and worse, una, naadik sya sa yosi, then nalalasing na sya, tapos nagcucutting na sya ng klase ngayon para lang makapunta sa ibang school na public [madami daw kasing lalaki dun e], tapos sumama pa sya sa gang.

anong gagawin ko?
best friend ko sya at dapat may masabi man lang ako sakanya para di masira ang buhay nya.
Liek teh lulz!
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October 4th, 2008 at 05:02am
elvis ain't dead:
i've pondering this one for a long time now pero hindi ko pa rin alam ang sagot...

tama ba na maging weird ang feeling ko pag nagkaron na ng lovelife ang friend ko? i know i have to be happy for him and her but there's this feeling inside me na parang ayoko din. kasi natatakot ako na may magbago between samin ng friend ko since magkakaroon na siya ng taong mas special kesa sakin.
well, this happened to me thrice na.
nung sinabi ng close friend kong girl na may ka-MU na siya, i really cried myself to sleep. well, that was years ago na.
ngayon, 2 of my friends, one guy and one girl. they both found the love of their lives. and sometimes, i'm just forcing myself to be happy for them. ayoko na ngang pag-uusapan yung mga love life nila kasi ayoko marinig. and naiinis ako na wala na lang ibang binabanggit yung girl na friend ko kundi yung name ng boyfriend niya.
am i being selfish? am i that bad?


Di pala ako nag iisa. Ako din, huhu. I think, kaya lang tayo nagkakaganito kasi natatakot nga tayong mawala sila, I mean, siyempre, mas mag iispend na sila ng time kasama yung "lover" nila, kaya siguro medyo nalulungkot tayo. Ewan, basta ako, smile na lang kahit nalulungkot ako.
Halifax.
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Halifax.
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October 7th, 2008 at 07:13am
guys, there's just this problem i have. i hate it!!!!!!!
why does everyone call me fucking ***?!?!?!?! what the hell, grabe yung kuya ko nagbabasa lang at nakikinig ng ipod emo na raw ako?!?!?!?!?! UGH!!!!!!!! pati sa school!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 mga tao pang-asar!!!!!!! sabi ko lang ayaw ko dun sa hallway maingay, dun na lang kami sa likod ng canteen kasi dun tahimik, *** na raw yun?!?!?!?!?! OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT WILL I DO TO THESE PEOPLE?!?!?!?!
fun ghoul
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fun ghoul
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October 7th, 2008 at 07:22am
^ just ignore it, nangaasar lang sila.
titigil din yan, e kung di ka naman talaga emo, wag mo nang pansinin.
decode.
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decode.
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October 7th, 2008 at 07:24am
^tama. wag mong pansinin. pag narealize nilang walang epekto sayo yung pang-aasar nila, titigil din yan.
and hey, gumagamit sila ng defense mechanism na projection, sinasabing ikaw ang emo e baka sila nga dyan yung nag-eemo-emohan. yaan mo na lang sila.