Over-Controling Spouses/Lovers/Boyfreinds.

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thank fsm. In The Murder Scene Age: 36 Gender: Female Posts: 20564	September 4th, 2009 at 09:32pm ^ We must see eye-to-eye on a lot of things. I am completely with you on the above poster's relationship, but I think she's already aware of that. I've been in an abusive and controlling relationship and was in denial for 2 years. People just don't get it until they figure it out on their own, it seems. That's what it took for me, even after losing every friend I had and becoming a recluse just for him. of course he wasn't worth it. they never, ever, ever are.
xxZalanortxx Killjoy Age: 28 Gender: Male Posts: 79	September 7th, 2009 at 07:16pm I've actually noticed that the song Ava Adore, by the Smashing Pumpkins seems to relate directly to this. Billy is saying of how him and D'arcy must never be apart, he wants to make sure she keeps up here appearance to his liking, and he constantly uses the excuse that he adores her. It almost seems as if he was warning her that if he started acting this way, that she should tell him. The song seems to sum up a great deal of the actions taken against their lover.
fabulous killjoy. Moderator Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 46256	September 7th, 2009 at 10:48pm xxZalanortxx: I've actually noticed that the song Ava Adore, by the Smashing Pumpkins seems to relate directly to this. Billy is saying of how him and D'arcy must never be apart, he wants to make sure she keeps up here appearance to his liking, and he constantly uses the excuse that he adores her. It almost seems as if he was warning her that if he started acting this way, that she should tell him. The song seems to sum up a great deal of the actions taken against their lover. Lol what? sorry but D'arcy and Billy were never in a relationship; D'arcy and James were back in the day, and when Adore the album was being made, Billy's girlfriend at the time was a woman by the name of Yelena. Not that any of this is relevant information, but that's definitely not what the song's about
xxZalanortxx Killjoy Age: 28 Gender: Male Posts: 79	September 9th, 2009 at 03:45pm gnihsams snikpmup.: Lol what? sorry but D'arcy and Billy were never in a relationship; D'arcy and James were back in the day, and when Adore the album was being made, Billy's girlfriend at the time was a woman by the name of Yelena. Not that any of this is relevant information, but that's definitely not what the song's about I thought they were. I heard a bunch of fans commenting on wishing that Billy and D'arcy were still together, so I assumed they were. How they acted together in the song made it seem kind of like that, but I guess James was in the video too. Sorry, I don't know that much about bands to tell you the truth. I don't possess much common knowledge period. I consider myself to be more of an academic type. Anyways, I think the message in the song is the same though. If not, then whoops.

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