after tonights show we went and waited by there buses and Frank came out to sign things....he was such a sweet guy and I agree didnt act famous at all....he stopped and talked to everyone and had real conversations...I got him to sign my DIY My Chem sweater....
sadly though he was the only one to sign things....
Bob and Ray just went by, but they did wave and say hi....which was fine by me...I understand they were exhausted...
Gerard though....he avoided us...didnt look up didnt say anything.....just hid behind the security guard....we were all so disappointed....not even a glance...and this was at 2 in the morning we waited over 3 hours for him and he couldnt even acknowledge us...I understand the man was tired but still not even looking at us...where as Ray and Bob at least looked and waved and they came out after Gerard....
Oh and to everyone else who is all "omg, I dont know what I'd say to them if I ever met them" and whatnot. Trust me, I was the exact same way. But Frank was just so nice and everything, I honestly forgot that he was even famous... he didn't seem like the same Frank that goes crazy on stage or anything, he seemed like a really sweet, regular guy. I found it ALOT easier to talk to him than I though. =]
I thought that I would go speechless and that when I met them and weird..but when I met frank and ray...it was weird. It felt kinda like i'd known them for ages..they were really easy to speak to and that...im crap at explaining things but you prob get the idea.
tori; you know how i was.
i sobbed all the way home after what gerard did.
he was my hero, my saviour, my friggin iv.
frank was amazing, and i love him.
but i can't just adopt him as my new hero.
it seems that everything that i ever accomplised under gerard was a lie;
and that he's just a joke.
i'm still sobbing, and it's been hours.
i don't know what i'm going to do...
Gerard came out on Tuesday when Frank was signing things... he was in a car... and when he pulled out (he was in the passangers seat), he pulled the hood of his hoodie over his head so people couldn't see him and then like drove away really quickly.
I was really pissed.
after reading all of theses im afraid i wont have anything to say when i meet mcr.which i dont know when will happen.but gerard ray frank bob,mikey sound all soo sweet
I don't think he's ignoring fans... I think he doesn't want to be seen. He is really shy, and for all we know he's having a hard time right now.
he was really nice when I met him, so he's not trying to NOT talk to fans, he just needs alone time once in a while. he's human.
and again to everyone who doesn't know what to say:
I felt like I knew them so well already that I didn't really say much at all. it was just like "yep, there's ray. hi ray!" so um, say something really random. they'll laugh or go along with it.
I don't think he's ignoring fans... I think he doesn't want to be seen. He is really shy, and for all we know he's having a hard time right now.
he was really nice when I met him, so he's not trying to NOT talk to fans, he just needs alone time once in a while. he's human.
I kinda agree...
I know the first time I met him he was super sweet and I thought he was the nicest man in the world...
I'm not making excuses for him or anything....but I think he might be going through a hard time too....
BUT I also think that he could have at least looked at us and waved...its not the fans fault....
i talked on the phone with my friend benjamin for over an hour today.
he told me...that since gerard is showing us that he is more than just a frontman...he's showing us that he can be pissed off, he can be upset, he can be sorrowful. he's a human. we as mcr fans love to boast that we connect with the members...and now, it's a time when gerard has never been as relatable....he's more human now than he's ever been.
i just wish that he felt better; and that i felt better.
Yeah.
My mom was really pissed that he kinda like, hid from everyone though.
Shes trying to convince me that fame is getting to his head and that its really rude of him to just ignore his fans like that.
Personally, I dont think that.
I think that, yeah, it is kinda rude to do something like hide or ignore the fans.... but its not like hes always done that. I mean, hes gone out a bunch of times to sign autographs, hes really good when it comes to fans.
And from what I've heard, hes a really sweet guy.
I just dont know whats been up with him latley.
Hopefully he'll get out of this stage that he's in
at least you've met him, once. I'm still hoping. And if Gerard is down, when i finally see him, I'll put him in a good mood with my amazing sense of humor! (jk. i dont think i'm that funny. but he WILL be in a better mood when I'm through with him. I will talk to him and make him laugh and smile if its the last thing I do.)
that is just awesome ;D. I'm so glad you got to meet them. and you're Kristen? I'm friends with you on myspace :33. because I remember reading this in one of your blogs