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Feminists and women's rights in general

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Joining The Black Parade
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December 23rd, 2006 at 09:17am
Still in year 2006 man get in Finland more than woman almost 200 euros! Finland is rich country.
I read somewhere that in year 1500 they though womans ass is big because they can sit better than mans, and they can be better home doing socks and think like that ...strange?
I'm so sad and angry about that woman are still so "slave" for some mans...but i'm not a politicia..Disgust

And it's sad 'cause somewhere womans don't have no equitable...
But thats good almost everyone (man) respect womans because they love womans Wink
jedicam10
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March 6th, 2007 at 09:35pm
BrodieAtwater:
I'm totally for equal rights, I just don't want self-righteous lesbians telling me I'm a discriminatory pig just because I have a penis.


That come from the heart of every man. I think thought their cause is noble, some go to far.
Beeblebrox
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March 21st, 2007 at 02:23pm
I work in an all-women firm, so we get paid the equivilant of how hard we work. I must say the only issue I have with feminism is when women demand special treatment. Like men should open ALL doors, pay for ALL things and bend over backwards to make them happy. That's not equality, that's subserviant behavior. I open the door for my man half the time and we split everything 50/50. If he buys me dinner one night, I buy the next. It's not right for me or any other woman to place herself above men in any reagrd.
yoey962
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April 7th, 2007 at 03:07pm
BrodieAtwater:
Femenism, although noble, is over-blown and becomes a detriment to it's own cause through forcing itself upon society.


so true. my english teacher and drama teacher are both extremely feminist, and when it is rammed down your throat everyday it kinda makes you want to go home, go to the kitchen, bake cookies, and have hundreds of kids running around you whilst your husband treats you like an object.
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August 26th, 2007 at 11:06am
1. Some feminists defintely go too far. There is a line between standing up for what you believe in and hurting others because of it. Women are not weaker than men, and men are not weaker than women. We are all equal.

2. Women's rights have a big impact on a ton of stuff, and I have never even heard of people supporting mens' rights because the truth is, they don't need it.

3. Double standards are stupid. period.
Elwood.
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August 26th, 2007 at 08:23pm
Feminism is just the idea that women are equal to men. Some "feminists" take this idea and totally distort it and start rambling on about how men are inferior to women--these people aren't actually feminists at all, but women that are sexist and want to hide behind the excuse of feminism. I'm a feminist--I also believe that men have been and are useful contributors to this society.
King Of The Jews JR
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August 27th, 2007 at 07:23pm
Feminism is stupid, overblown nowadays.

I do believe in equal rights and abilities though, but i prefer to call it equality, not feminisim. Thats to sexist only having females mentioned in it Razz
Fezzik
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August 27th, 2007 at 07:50pm
^Feminism is "the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes". It is equality. It's just that men always had all their rights, and women didn't.
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August 27th, 2007 at 10:23pm
Fezzik:
^Feminism is "the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes". It is equality. It's just that men always had all their rights, and women didn't.


Agreed


Also

Do note please in America, the highest paid female white actress is paid 1/3 less then America's highest paid black man

There are less women in high paying places then minorities of color

Just goes to show, while people complain racism is the worst injustice in America, they are seriously overlooking the fact that woman are much less likely so succeed (due to the glass celling and unequal pay)
Emoishboy
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August 28th, 2007 at 12:29am
Feminism is overblown, I will admit...

but my best friends are female, and I can't help but wanna fight with them. A few of them applied for weights and were refused the chance to be in the class. That's just sexist crap.
ChildVision
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August 28th, 2007 at 12:40am
yea...i have friends at my school who cant be on the big football team
that's a fucking load of shit
and that's coming from a girl who lives in a community where the woman stay home and work out while 'tending to the children' to keep their husbands attracted the them. most of the women in my town are at least ten years younger then their husbands. and most of them dye their hair blond. and making themselves good looking is their main priority. and i just hate it. the majority of woman in my town who are married in my town didn't even go to collage.
i will be dammed before I have to become a house-mom instead of earning my own money.
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August 28th, 2007 at 12:57am
Wow, is that some sort of Mormon community? How odd.
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August 28th, 2007 at 02:57pm

I myself have never been able to find out precisely what feminism is: I only know that people call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a door mat or a prostitute. ~Rebecca West

Maybe a bit cliche, but that quote kind of explains why I call myself a feminist.

I think that it's unfortunate, even tragic, that Affirmative Action is necessary--but that's just the thing, it it necessary. If you're under the impression that the playing field is actually level, that's only because you have a decent position on it. That's not to say that some people who don't disagree with Affirmative Action. Like I said, I don't like it either, just like I don't like Title IX, and I think both have quite a bit of room for improvement and hopefully eventually won't be needed. But for now they are.
bjork's assistant.
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August 28th, 2007 at 06:40pm
I think some feminists go too far and end up discriminating men. Well, the difference between men and women's rights used to be drastic. But then, we got the right to vote. Which is great. I think men and women's rights are pretty equal right now.

I am a feminist, but not the kind you'd think.

I just think that women shouldn't be treated like objects. And the problem is the media. What the media is doing to males AND especially females is compeletely WRONG.

Well here;

This is my english exam presentation (the question was what you wanna be when you grow up). It pretty much covers my opinion...

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Everybody gets asked this question sometime : « What do you want to be when you’re older? »

Finally, I recently found the thing I wanted to be when I was older. A feminist.

For those of you who don’t know what a feminist is, let me explain. A feminist is a person who highly supports womens’ rights and well-being. There are many types of feminism. There is liberal, eco, radical and socialist feminism but I won’t get into that. Right now, our society is very messed up. Women are treated like objects and used for advertisement in wrongful ways. If you watch music videos, you’ll see the images of women are very innapropriate. We have gotten so numb from the media’s image of women, we don’t even react to its disgusting actions. Just look at music these days... All it’s about is women shaking their “junk” for men at clubs. Yet, we listlen to it. Anyhow, all this to say, that there are more feminists than ever before.

Now, you really have to be determined to be a feminist. There are many simple steps you can take before heading out and taking on the world.
1)You can stop talking about your weight. It’s a bad example for the people around you.
2)Start discovering women you admire. Question yourself about their behaviour, why they are special to you and what their values are. ( Except for looks )
3)Concentrate on your inner values. There are more important things to a person than the outside.
4)Watch out on what you spend your money on. Are you buying things that involve cosmetics? If so, think about the negative companies you are supporting.
5)Voice your thoughts. Who says you can’t send letters to comment on media you approve or dissaprove to?
6)Be a role model. Being different from the women you see everywhere could attract young admirers. Your little sister or cousin could look up to you as a hero.

Once you have aced those simple steps, you can join feminist groups and go around the world, giving presentations and protesting. Who knows, could be the voice of the generation.

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-Carolyne.
UndyingSoul.
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August 28th, 2007 at 06:47pm
I think that Feminism gets way out of hand. I mean fighting for rights is one thing, but actually hating someone just for being a guy is a little to much.
Fezzik
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August 28th, 2007 at 07:39pm
As regards to women in music videos, that only happens because women allow it to happen. Women have a general idea going in of what's going to happen and how they're going to be treated, but they do it anyway because they want to be in a music video and they want to be around rich and famous men. We're our own worst enemy.

I don't think cosmetics are a negative thing, though. Putting on makeup so guys will think you're pretty; that's not good. But there's nothing wrong with wearing makeup because it gives you confidence and makes you feel nice. That's the same reason we bathe, do our hair, wear deodorant, dress in anything other than sweats every single day - it's nice to feel good about yourself.
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August 28th, 2007 at 10:48pm
In soc class, we had an extended study on males and females. We looked over many documented studies that all found the female to be biologically superior to the male in terms of health, lifespan, and brain activity. It was facinating.

Not saying men arn't worth as much, but we clearly have the biological upper hand.
Carrie White
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August 28th, 2007 at 11:51pm
i agree with female rights (duh) but i do believe that some feminists go way to far sometimes. woman have a lot of rights, pretty much the same rights as a guy. and hating men is way outta lead, what have they ever done to them? its one thing to hate the government and congress because of our rights but hating all men?

LHD- your post made me crack up laughing. i have no idea why we have better health and superior brain activity then men, but woman do live longer then men because of those reasons. men die most of the time from bad health or they do something, without thinking twice, and end up getting hurt or die. the only thing men have the upper hand on is strength, men are a lot stronger due to genics. thats really it, but with everything else, we got it good Very Happy
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August 29th, 2007 at 12:01am
LoversHeartDisease:
Wow, is that some sort of Mormon community? How odd.


lol not just super surbirbia
like where retired tv stars come and live
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August 29th, 2007 at 12:05am
Girl next door:

LHD- your post made me crack up laughing. i have no idea why we have better health and superior brain activity then men, but woman do live longer then men because of those reasons. men die most of the time from bad health or they do something, without thinking twice, and end up getting hurt or die. the only thing men have the upper hand on is strength, men are a lot stronger due to genics. thats really it, but with everything else, we got it good Very Happy


Sometimes I do hate men though. I always say "even the most decent men are assholes"
Mostly out of anger XD

Eh, and we have the whole birth/period/feminine issues thing.

Ew