Rape

druscilla; in rags:

Kiss me Goodbye:

Yer, But its more likly for a girl to get raped

Actually, it's more likely for a girl to report being raped.
Guys are usually ashamed or afraid to come forward, so we can't be sure on the statistics of male rape..

Good point. Out of curiosity, though, how would you know if they're ashamed to come forward?

Luffy:

druscilla; in rags:

Kiss me Goodbye:

Yer, But its more likly for a girl to get raped

Actually, it's more likely for a girl to report being raped.
Guys are usually ashamed or afraid to come forward, so we can't be sure on the statistics of male rape..

Good point. Out of curiosity, though, how would you know if they're ashamed to come forward?

Personally? I don't. I'm not a male rape victim.
Just hearing what male rape victims who come forward have said.
And psychological opinions on why male rape victims don't come forward [and female as well].

Oh okay, good lol. Because I was just going to say "Couldn't you say the same about female victims?"

Luffy:

Oh okay, good lol. Because I was just going to say "Couldn't you say the same about female victims?"

Male rape victims feel their masculinity is being threatened and that could make them gay. It could also make them feel as if other people won't think that they're really a man anymore because they couldn't stop it.

Obviously, women don't have that problem.

Assuming, though, that the boy wasn't raped by a woman and girls were never raped by women.

My friend was raped by another female. Just as bad

Luffy:

Assuming, though, that the boy wasn't raped by a woman and girls were never raped by women.

True.
I suppose I did stereotype a bit about a man always being the rapist.
It normally is [as far as we know male/female rape and female/female rape], but I did generalize.

Some stats from RAINN [Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network]. It's American.

One in six American women are victims of sexual assault, and one in 33 men.

In 2003, nine out of every ten rape victims were female according to the 2003 National Crime Victimization Survey

* 15% of victims are under age 12
* 29% are age 12-17
* 44% are under age 18
* 80% are under age 30

Kiss me Goodbye:

PassionBetweenLovers:

druscilla; in rags:

Hush Noise:

druscilla; in rags:

I don't think women should have to change the way they dress just because men are f-ckheads.

Unless you lead them on with image.
See, it doesn't matter if you're the good girl or the evil one.
What you wear is how others will precieve you.
People shouldn't judge people how they dress.
But sadly, they do.

Even if people see you and think you're a slut, it gives them no right to take their pants down and shove themselves inside of you.
Just because you perceive an image does not mean you have the right to be raped.
I wear tight jeans and halter tops.
I wear miniskirts, hooker boots, and tank tops.
I am not asking to be raped. I am exercising the right to make my own fashion decisions.

And leading a guy on makes you a tease, not an open invitation for sex.

Excactly, I don't think a little girl would be asking for it. I don't think she's asking for her innocence to be taken away.

I agree cause I see little girls aged i dunno 3 wearing a small skirt, tank top and boots doesnt mean she wants to be raped!

I dont think they're asked to be put up for sale for sex or put in child pornography

I don't think that girls that age asked for that single point to be exagerrated.

Luffy:

I don't think that girls that age asked for that single point to be exagerrated.

I'm just telling the damn truth, girls who are three or less are sold for sex and child ponography in places like Mexico and Columbia. It's not their fault , and I find that quite offensive. I have a cousin who was taken away because of that shit. And youre going to tell me I'm exageratting! She didn't ask to be taken away or to be raped my some random guy everyday. Or for them to still what all she has left her dignaty , hope, and innocence.

Luffy:

druscilla; in rags:

Kiss me Goodbye:

Yer, But its more likly for a girl to get raped

Actually, it's more likely for a girl to report being raped.
Guys are usually ashamed or afraid to come forward, so we can't be sure on the statistics of male rape..

Good point. Out of curiosity, though, how would you know if they're ashamed to come forward?

id just like to know....
can a man actually be raped hede more or less go along with it and call it foreplay

PassionBetweenLovers:

Luffy:

I don't think that girls that age asked for that single point to be exagerrated.

I'm just telling the damn truth, girls who are three or less are sold for sex and child ponography in places like Mexico and Columbia. It's not their fault , and I find that quite offensive. I have a cousin who was taken away because of that shit. And youre going to tell me I'm exageratting! She didn't ask to be taken away or to be raped my some random guy everyday. Or for them to still what all she has left her dignaty , hope, and innocence.

He didn't say it was their fault.

druscilla; in rags:

PassionBetweenLovers:

Luffy:

I don't think that girls that age asked for that single point to be exagerrated.

I'm just telling the damn truth, girls who are three or less are sold for sex and child ponography in places like Mexico and Columbia. It's not their fault , and I find that quite offensive. I have a cousin who was taken away because of that shit. And youre going to tell me I'm exageratting! She didn't ask to be taken away or to be raped my some random guy everyday. Or for them to still what all she has left her dignaty , hope, and innocence.

He didn't say it was their fault.

I didn't say that either all I said that I wasn't exageratting.
But what do you feel about that I mean for children sold for sex or child pornography?

I'm only saying the point has already been brought up, and we understand. It's just being dragged on a wagon, at this point.

(I was going to say dragged on, but wagons are so much more fun to say out loud! Wah-gun! Wewt!)

Luffy:

I'm only saying the point has already been brought up, and we understand. It's just being dragged on a wagon, at this point.

(I was going to say dragged on, but wagons are so much more fun to say out loud! Wah-gun! Wewt!)

You do like rainbows and wagons don't you?
Anyway, I want to be a psychologist when I'm grown, and I read this in a pshycology book?
About date rape myths, like a guys say," She said no , but her body was saying yes.
As a guy could you enlighten me how would that work. Like how could they think that. You mean like physical attraction or...

PassionBetweenLovers:

Luffy:

I don't think that girls that age asked for that single point to be exagerrated.

I'm just telling the damn truth, girls who are three or less are sold for sex and child ponography in places like Mexico and Columbia. It's not their fault , and I find that quite offensive. I have a cousin who was taken away because of that shit. And youre going to tell me I'm exageratting! She didn't ask to be taken away or to be raped my some random guy everyday. Or for them to still what all she has left her dignaty , hope, and innocence.

Since when did we start confusing the US with mexico and columbia there two totally different places among there different standards

PassionBetweenLovers:

druscilla; in rags:

PassionBetweenLovers:

Luffy:

I don't think that girls that age asked for that single point to be exagerrated.

I'm just telling the damn truth, girls who are three or less are sold for sex and child ponography in places like Mexico and Columbia. It's not their fault , and I find that quite offensive. I have a cousin who was taken away because of that shit. And youre going to tell me I'm exageratting! She didn't ask to be taken away or to be raped my some random guy everyday. Or for them to still what all she has left her dignaty , hope, and innocence.

He didn't say it was their fault.

I didn't say that either all I said that I wasn't exageratting.
But what do you feel about that I mean for children sold for sex or child pornography?

That needs a separate topic.

druscilla; in rags:

PassionBetweenLovers:

druscilla; in rags:

PassionBetweenLovers:

Luffy:

I don't think that girls that age asked for that single point to be exagerrated.

I'm just telling the damn truth, girls who are three or less are sold for sex and child ponography in places like Mexico and Columbia. It's not their fault , and I find that quite offensive. I have a cousin who was taken away because of that shit. And youre going to tell me I'm exageratting! She didn't ask to be taken away or to be raped my some random guy everyday. Or for them to still what all she has left her dignaty , hope, and innocence.

He didn't say it was their fault.

I didn't say that either all I said that I wasn't exageratting.
But what do you feel about that I mean for children sold for sex or child pornography?

That needs a separate topic.

You want to make one or I could what would you want?

PassionBetweenLovers:

druscilla; in rags:

That needs a separate topic.

You want to make one or I could what would you want?

I made one, so no more spamming this thread.
And read the rules when you post in the other.

druscilla; in rags:

Even if people see you and think you're a slut, it gives them no right to take their pants down and shove themselves inside of you.
Just because you perceive an image does not mean you have the right to be raped.
I wear tight jeans and halter tops.
I wear miniskirts, hooker boots, and tank tops.
I am not asking to be raped. I am exercising the right to make my own fashion decisions.

And leading a guy on makes you a tease, not an open invitation for sex.

I understand, and I don't want to belittle your sense of fashion.
I wish we can all dress how we please without a bunch of idiots point our way and make false statements.
Of course, while image is not always important, body language takes on a whole new meaning.
If you, let's say, wear a cute miniskirt, and just to play up you wear some wedges. Walking down the street normaly might make some guys stare, but no more. If you walk with your chest puffed and your hips going from side to side dramatically, well, you get the picture.

I'm not saying that a goth should stop wearing her black clothes because others precieve her as "a satanic psycho", nor do I want a girl who wears a tight jeans to be viewed as a "slut". I honestly, honestly wish that men would stop staring at me like I'm some child prostitute for them to screw and scamper back homes to their wives. And let's not forget that boys get raped too, sadly- By both men and women. [Women by using a dildo or a strap-on]

People are assholes, and men are even bigger ones. The only best way to stay cleer from getting rape is to do the following-

1. Carry a cellphone in case of emergenices
2. Never walk alone in the streets. Bring along a friend or your parents even. There's power in numbers, believe it or not.
3. If you feel like you are followed, take a different path home.
4. In case of getting raped already, call home then 911. Don't shower, smoke, eat/drink, change clothing or wear deodorant. The poilice will want to do some expections in order to catch the rapist.

[sigh] There. Other than that, if you're reading this, and you have been a victim of rape, I'm very, very sorry. I know someone who has been through the worst, and she wouldn't even take counceling. Don't do the same; talk with adults. It'll make your future seem brighter. =]