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Ierosistible Killjoy Age: 58 Gender: Female Posts: 54	August 6th, 2008 at 01:58pm Alan Carr: I dont get this.. What are the 'Gender Lines'? It means that it's not only males doing the raping. It is both done and done to either gender - by either gender.
Go fuck yourself Devil's Got Your Number Age: 30 Gender: Female Posts: 37823	August 6th, 2008 at 02:00pm Ierosistible: Rape is not about sex. It's about control. now with that statement that doesn't go for every case, a majority of cases it is, I know someone who was raped their best friend, if you knew this guy and what he did to her, then proceeded to do so to other girls afterwards, maybe it was for control, but on the girl who he did it to first, his best freind, she didn't even realize what was happening, but he was doing it to her for the hell of it, he knew just how much she loved him and he played on that for his pleasure. And yes a majority of rapes do happen by people you know very well, but that doesn't mean that every case is like that, there are still plenty of horror stories of a sex offender stealing a little girl and raping her then ussually killing her afterwards
Go fuck yourself Devil's Got Your Number Age: 30 Gender: Female Posts: 37823	August 6th, 2008 at 02:01pm Ierosistible: It means that it's not only males doing the raping. It is both done and done to either gender - by either gender. ok I agree with that, anyone can be a rapist, and there are so many victums and people ussually think of girls first as raped victums, there are plenty of boys too
John St. John Shotgun Sinner Age: 31 Gender: Male Posts: 7145	August 6th, 2008 at 03:07pm My Dear Delirious: ok I agree with that, anyone can be a rapist, and there are so many victums and people ussually think of girls first as raped victums, there are plenty of boys too It's just , wouldnt it be harder for a woman to rape a man?
Go fuck yourself Devil's Got Your Number Age: 30 Gender: Female Posts: 37823	August 6th, 2008 at 03:25pm Alan Carr: It's just , wouldnt it be harder for a woman to rape a man? well maybe not like a full grown man, but like a little boy, cuase that does happen. if it were adults it would defedently be mor elikely it was the man raping the girl
John St. John Shotgun Sinner Age: 31 Gender: Male Posts: 7145	August 6th, 2008 at 03:33pm Ignore
Ierosistible Killjoy Age: 58 Gender: Female Posts: 54	August 6th, 2008 at 03:43pm My Dear Delirious: he was doing it to her for the hell of it, he knew just how much she loved him and he played on that for his pleasure. That in and of itself is a form of control. My Dear Delirious: And yes a majority of rapes do happen by people you know very well, but that doesn't mean that every case is like that, there are still plenty of horror stories of a sex offender stealing a little girl and raping her then ussually killing her afterwards I didn't say every case. Also... Rape is classified as a victim being unable or unwilling to consent to sex. A man can be raped if he is: 1) impaired by drugs or alcohol 2) under the age of consent (16-18 in most states) 3) physically handicapped or limited 4) physically forced or coerced by a woman Erection isn't only produced by arousal. It can happen for many reasons. Hope this is ok to say.
Faye Merci Salute You in Your Grave Age: - Gender: - Posts: 4473	August 6th, 2008 at 06:07pm About women raping other women / men: Quote Most legal codes on rape do not legislate against women raping men, as rape is generally defined to include the act of penetration on behalf of the rapist. Quote The rape of women by men is by far the most frequent form of the assault, with an estimated 91% of rape victims being female and 9% being male while 99% of offenders are male. In contrast, rape by women is a barely understood phenomenon that is widely denied in most societies and one that usually causes surprise, shock, or utter revulsion Quote Rape of men by women, by perpetrator PerpetratorFrequency Steady dating partner18.6% Casual friend4.1% Ex-girlfriend22.6% Acquaintance3.1% Close friend9.4% Casual date2.2% Wife13.2% Stranger1.1% Quote Most rape research and reporting to date has been limited to male-female forms of rape. Research on male-male and female-male is beginning to be done. However, almost no research has been done on female-female rape, though women can be charged with rape About the question in the first post - do women ask for it? Quote "Victim blaming" is holding the victim of a crime to be in whole or in part responsible for the crime. In the context of rape, this concept refers to the Just World Theory and popular attitudes that certain victim behaviours (such as flirting, or wearing sexually-provocative clothing) may encourage rape. In extreme cases, victims are said to have "asked for it", simply by not behaving demurely. In most Western countries, the defense of provocation is not accepted as a mitigation for rape. A global survey of attitudes toward sexual violence by the Global Forum for Health Research shows that victim-blaming concepts are at least partially accepted in many countries. In some countries, victim-blaming is more common, and women who have been raped are sometimes deemed to have behaved improperly. Often, these are countries where there is a significant social divide between the freedoms and status afforded to men and women. Despite longstanding feminist campaigns of activism and agitprop dedicated to the elimination of harmful rape myths (attitudes and beliefs conducive to sexual violence), virulent memes persist; many members of the public still contend that at least some women are prone to masochism and deception I do wonder why no one has bothered in the last couple of pages to expand on other topics of rape than "do women ask for it." I would like to know your thoughts on child rape. And what about the myths that exist in many parts of africa that if you have sex with a virgin, you cure yourself from aids?
Go fuck yourself Devil's Got Your Number Age: 30 Gender: Female Posts: 37823	August 6th, 2008 at 06:09pm Ierosistible: Also... Rape is classified as a victim being unable or unwilling to consent to sex. A man can be raped if he is: 1) impaired by drugs or alcohol 2) under the age of consent (16-18 in most states) 3) physically handicapped or limited 4) physically forced or coerced by a woman Erection isn't only produced by arousal. It can happen for many reasons. Hope this is ok to say. it should be ok, it adds to the conversation. But ok you brought up if the boy is 16-18, what if the girl is like 19 and they both are ok with having sex, should that stil be counted as rape
blow Bleeding on the Floor Age: - Gender: Female Posts: 1137	August 6th, 2008 at 07:32pm Faye Merci: And what about the myths that exist in many parts of africa that if you have sex with a virgin, you cure yourself from aids? It's so disturbing that they think that. The only way to change that is to educate people, they would only think that if they where uneducated and ignorant about it. A little info: Rape, including child rape, is increasing at shocking rates in South Africa. Sexual violence against children, including the raping of infants, has increased 400% over the past decade A number of high profile baby rapes since 2001 (including the fact that they required extensive reconstructive surgery to rebuild urinary, genital, abdominal, or tracheal systems) increased the need to address the problem socially and legally. In 2001, a 9-month-old baby was raped by six men, aged between 24 and 66, after the infant had been left unattended by her teenage mother. A 4-year-old girl died after being raped by her father. A 14-month-old girl was raped by her two uncles. In February 2002, an 8-month-old infant was reportedly gang raped by four men. One has been charged. The infant has required extensive reconstructive surgery. The 8-month-old infant's injuries were so extensive, increased attention on prosecution has occurred.
Ierosistible Killjoy Age: 58 Gender: Female Posts: 54	August 6th, 2008 at 08:50pm My Dear Delirious: it should be ok, it adds to the conversation. But ok you brought up if the boy is 16-18, what if the girl is like 19 and they both are ok with having sex, should that stil be counted as rape Technically and legally speaking, in the US it's statutory rape. Sex with someone under the age of consent is statutory. The older person can legally be charged. Someone asked for feelings about child rape. I personally feel anyone who does this deserves any severe treatment that befalls them. I'm unforgiving about things like this that are so wrong on every level.
Go fuck yourself Devil's Got Your Number Age: 30 Gender: Female Posts: 37823	August 7th, 2008 at 12:33am Eponine: It's so disturbing that they think that. The only way to change that is to educate people, they would only think that if they where uneducated and ignorant about it. A little info: Rape, including child rape, is increasing at shocking rates in South Africa. Sexual violence against children, including the raping of infants, has increased 400% over the past decade A number of high profile baby rapes since 2001 (including the fact that they required extensive reconstructive surgery to rebuild urinary, genital, abdominal, or tracheal systems) increased the need to address the problem socially and legally. In 2001, a 9-month-old baby was raped by six men, aged between 24 and 66, after the infant had been left unattended by her teenage mother. A 4-year-old girl died after being raped by her father. A 14-month-old girl was raped by her two uncles. In February 2002, an 8-month-old infant was reportedly gang raped by four men. One has been charged. The infant has required extensive reconstructive surgery. The 8-month-old infant's injuries were so extensive, increased attention on prosecution has occurred. that is nothing less of horrifing. there does need to be more constructed. Which means more law enforcement and education. The fact that rape has increased so much just shows that the people seem almost more desprite, but how many children wil have to suffer?
Coraline. Thinking Happy Thoughts Age: 30 Gender: Female Posts: 493	August 10th, 2008 at 01:25am rape is mostly inflicted by people who have had pain inflicted upon themselves,something usually from the predators childhood triggers the need to do it.It doesnt matter how drunk,revealed or flirtacious a woman is,it doesnt mean thier a target for rape.(im not saying the target cant be a man either) it can be young innocent children to old women,rapists like variety,which must add to the need not to get caught and once they start theyre unlikely to stop. When the need to just rape gets too boring,they raise it up a little bit. for instance they could use the sleeping beauty effect which is where the victim is knocked out or drugged so they cant resist,eventually left for dead. How a woman acts or is doesnt mean she is a target,it has nothing to do with it. If a man feels the need,likes the woman and decides shes the next victim he will do it. it doesnt matter how covered up,sober or protected she is. its basically a fetish,a fetish that controls this person into getting what they feel they need,not what they want. All law enforcement is pushed aside . it doesnt take a drunken mistake,it just takes an instinct.

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