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assiralc talc
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September 16th, 2006 at 09:37am
Punk_Bling_Girl_85:
I think as a society we hold a disgusting bias against people who we think deserve crimes to be committed against them.


Spot on. Couldn't agree with you more. That sounds exactly the reason why people say sometimes the victim was asking for it. They try to justify the crime by blaming the victim for wearing the wrong clothes or acting the wrong way.
MistressRhi
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September 18th, 2006 at 03:18am
i think rape happens when a man or woman has been hurt from someone and they want to take their anger out, or when they have mental issues. I think that perhaps dressing like you are up for sex perhaps invites the thought of it and perhaps leads some to rape but it really takes that person to step over the line regardless of what someone is wearing.

i personally dont like the almost nothing look, i think it should be saved for lingerie mags or soft porn mags other than that, find some clothes. No one wants to see all that you have, leave some mystery and it also makes you look like you are after one thing and one thing only.
Jeffree Star
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November 6th, 2006 at 11:53am
I agree with Yara. Many kids are raped at a young age by a family member. And to tell the truth some of them are boys, not just girls. My cousin was raped he was only 7. By his own brother, and he's doing okay. His mother helps be strong.
Chowder
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November 8th, 2006 at 02:59pm
Well if a woman was drunk than thats taking advantage of a woman which is SICK AND WRONG!
If the women was asking to be raped then thats on her.... I mean not to be rude or anything...
Chowder
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November 8th, 2006 at 03:00pm
MistressRhi:
i think rape happens when a man or woman has been hurt from someone and they want to take their anger out, or when they have mental issues. I think that perhaps dressing like you are up for sex perhaps invites the thought of it and perhaps leads some to rape but it really takes that person to step over the line regardless of what someone is wearing.

i personally dont like the almost nothing look, i think it should be saved for lingerie mags or soft porn mags other than that, find some clothes. No one wants to see all that you have, leave some mystery and it also makes you look like you are after one thing and one thing only.


I agree
Thursday's Child
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November 10th, 2006 at 02:52am
Emily Is the Chaos!:
Well if a woman was drunk than thats taking advantage of a woman which is SICK AND WRONG!
If the women was asking to be raped then thats on her.... I mean not to be rude or anything...


I'm not contradicting you (yet)
but how would someone ask to be raped? rape means unconsented sex. so basically if your asking to be raped, it's not rape anymore....
do you mean by the way a person is acting or dressing, or what?
asha shake.
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November 10th, 2006 at 04:39am
Emily Is the Chaos!:
Well if a woman was drunk than thats taking advantage of a woman which is SICK AND WRONG!

But what if the guy is drunk too?
That happens way too often with my group of friends,
but nobody is claiming they were raped or anything like that.
When people are drunk they often do things they wouldn't do.
The easy solution is don't get drunk.

Emily Is the Chaos!:
If the women was asking to be raped then thats on her.... I mean not to be rude or anything...

NOBODY asks to be raped.
Chowder
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November 10th, 2006 at 09:17am
A Mixtape Love:
Emily Is the Chaos!:
Well if a woman was drunk than thats taking advantage of a woman which is SICK AND WRONG!
If the women was asking to be raped then thats on her.... I mean not to be rude or anything...


I'm not contradicting you (yet)
but how would someone ask to be raped? rape means unconsented sex. so basically if your asking to be raped, it's not rape anymore....
do you mean by the way a person is acting or dressing, or what?



Something like that... My thoughts are rocking and are ilbalanced a bit after i read some other peoples opinion, but now i think it is STILL taking advantage of a women and is wrong....
HeartShaped--Glasses
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November 12th, 2006 at 01:03am
No one EVER asks to be raped!No matter what you're wearing or how flirtatious you are,no means NO!
A person who rape's someone,for whatever reason is sick and twisted!
I dont think anyone deserves to go through being raped and it is a devastating and life changing thing!
Baby Jesus is
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November 12th, 2006 at 05:04am
Anyone hear about those comments that Muslim guy made on National TV like two wekes ago?

Describing western women as "uncovered meat"

Now thats over the line and why everyone hates Muslims, because of their stupid "leaders"
Gutterflower
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November 12th, 2006 at 10:29am
mysteryofgravity:
No one EVER asks to be raped!No matter what you're wearing or how flirtatious you are,no means NO!

Surely no one asks because the whole 'idea' of rape is that it's unconsented sex?
But I do agree that it's WAY out of order.
It can ruin your life. It's a violation of privacy and personal space.
In my opinion, anyone who can do that to a person has some sort of problem.
I understand that a lot of things like this are caused by abuse of some kind in the rapist's childhood, but I think that they need to get help with it, rather than taking it out on innocent people.
asha shake.
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November 12th, 2006 at 08:43pm
Baby Jesus is:
Anyone hear about those comments that Muslim guy made on National TV like two wekes ago?

Describing western women as "uncovered meat"

Now thats over the line and why everyone hates Muslims, because of their stupid "leaders"

Yes, I heard that.
It's terrible.
He likened women who dress in the western way, even if they are muslims, to uncovered meat, and likened men to animals,
Basically blaming women who aren't completely covered up for rape.

In regards to the last part of your post, not everybody hates muslims because of what one man said.
The fact that he is their leader does give them a bad representation in the community, but I would hope that most people can look past the leader and see that not all muslims hold this view.
I mean, you can see that from the backlash he got for those comments from the muslim community in Australia.
There was numerous articles in newspapers about muslim group that were absolutely disgusted that their leader could say such a thing.
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November 12th, 2006 at 08:55pm
Bloodraine:
Women aren't the only gender to be rape victims..
Please remember that.


I'm not arguing with your point, I'd like to just say that first.
But it's very hard to LEGALLY prove that a man has been raped - in the case that a woman has raped him anyway, which I doubt is very common.
The Nightbeast.
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November 12th, 2006 at 10:27pm
x-Hail Of Bullets-x:
I'm not arguing with your point, I'd like to just say that first.
But it's very hard to LEGALLY prove that a man has been raped - in the case that a woman has raped him anyway, which I doubt is very common.

It may be a lot more common than you think.
Do you really think I guy is going to report being raped by a women?
They have more pride than a woman, or at least mosy guys do.

And regardless of how common is may or may not be, it still happens and should be treated as any other rape case.
The public needs to know it does happen.
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November 12th, 2006 at 11:10pm
Christina for a 20:
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I'm not arguing with your point, I'd like to just say that first.
But it's very hard to LEGALLY prove that a man has been raped - in the case that a woman has raped him anyway, which I doubt is very common.

It may be a lot more common than you think.
Do you really think I guy is going to report being raped by a women?
They have more pride than a woman, or at least mosy guys do.

And regardless of how common is may or may not be, it still happens and should be treated as any other rape case.
The public needs to know it does happen.


I wasn't suggesting that it wasn't a serious issue.
I just meant more that there isn't much physical evidence of a woman raping a man. That in court, a jury is more convinced by evidence, so I think there wouldn't be many cases of a woman actually being convicted.

I have no evidence to prove this though, this was just some passing thoughts as I was reading this thread.
The Nightbeast.
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November 12th, 2006 at 11:13pm
x-Hail Of Bullets-x:
I wasn't suggesting that it wasn't a serious issue.
I just meant more that there isn't much physical evidence of a woman raping a man. That in court, a jury is more convinced by evidence, so I think there wouldn't be many cases of a woman actually being convicted.

I have no evidence to prove this though, this was just some passing thoughts as I was reading this thread.

I wasnt suggesting that you think its not a serious issue.
I agree with your original post, I was just adding on my own thoughts.
bloodredruby69
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November 12th, 2006 at 11:14pm
Often, the people who rape men are not looking for penetration, as for that, there would have to be arousal of the penis, and most men being raped are not enjoying it at all. There is another way to rape a man though, and it is really easy to see when that has happened. Anal rape is excruciating, causes heavy bleeding and tearing of the insides, and can damage the sphinctor muscle.

And lets not forget that it is not just women who rape men. Men rape men as well.
HeartShaped--Glasses
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November 17th, 2006 at 05:22am
Whether women rape men or men rape men or women rape women,it doesnt change the fact that its wrong.
It's a complete violation of a persons privacy and it completely ruins people's lives.
I dont think that anyone in their right mind could think that rape is RIGHT or that someone deserves it.
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November 17th, 2006 at 08:14am
Yeah, women can rape men. It's them saying "No, please don't" and not being forceful enough. The second they express that they don't want to do it, it becomes rape if it continues.
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November 17th, 2006 at 08:39am
Well, often times, guys prey on the "innocent" looking people. My best guy friend told me that he'd rape a girl not because he likes her but he wants to take away her innocence. I think it gives men some kind of pleasure. They want to be of control and be the "big" guy.

To prevent it: I really don't know. It depends on the rapist.

Confession: I oftenly fantasize about being raped, though.