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Student/Teacher Relationships

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TeenageVampire666
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TeenageVampire666
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July 9th, 2006 at 07:04am
my english teacher just got sacked because she was sleeping with a student.
so do you guys think bout it?
carys hilton.
Salute You in Your Grave
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July 9th, 2006 at 07:21am
Whoa.

Well obviously...there's different situations.
I don't think that you can just judge whether a
student-teacher relationship in itself is just "right"
or "wrong". Of course, if the student is underage,
then that's just a whole different issue...
Poopsie
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July 9th, 2006 at 10:15am
I have nothing against them. I mean, yeah, there is the whole under age thing, but if they are eighteen, I say they can.
dee dee ramone.
Always Born a Crime
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July 9th, 2006 at 11:36am
Well, depends on a lot of things.
If the student was underage, even if the student instigated it, it's still wrong. But if the student is of legal age, I'm not sure what that is in wherever you are, then I think that's fine. Even though it may be a little unfair if the teacher teaches the student in question, because wouldn't the teacher be biased in favour of the student?
Kid__
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July 9th, 2006 at 12:06pm
If they are both old enough to understand love and are both old enough to have sex legally, then I think it's okay.
It would porbably be better if the student was no longer being taught by the teacher though, because some people might get jelous and say that the teacher favors the student he/she is sleeping with.
gia
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gia
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July 9th, 2006 at 02:51pm
I really don't agree with relationships between students and teachers, no matter if the student is underaged or not. It's just unethical.
Most companies are against their employees having intimate relationships with the companie's clients. And that happens for a reason.
A teacher is there to teach the children, not sleep with them. Most of the times, the students just have a huge admiration for the teacher but, because they are so young, they confuse it with love. And let's not forget that most of us have, at least once in our lives, had a crush on someone who was much older than us. A teacher is a grown up and should know better than taking advantage of a dissorientated kid.
Nikki.
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July 9th, 2006 at 03:09pm
There was a 6th grade teacher in my elementary school who got arrested for flirting around with these two boys.
I just think it's really creepy.
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Killjoy
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July 9th, 2006 at 10:06pm
yeah, i reckon that the whole older, i know that you are niaive thing is a bit wrong.
pleasure.
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July 9th, 2006 at 11:03pm
I think it's horrible.
It's happened at my school more than once.
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Killjoy
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July 9th, 2006 at 11:41pm
same, a dude got fired, but it was a student from another school, so it wasnt like headlining gossip
TeenageVampire666
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July 10th, 2006 at 03:36am
the student at my school was only 15. the teacher was 26. it was kept very hush hush, but i knew the guy and he told me.
Victoria in Transit
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July 10th, 2006 at 04:10am
I don't think I've known of a relationship between teacher & student going on at any of the schools I've attended.
I do believe a student was sexually harrassed by a teacher once in my Intermediate school though.

I obviously don't think any of this is okay to do.
No
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July 10th, 2006 at 05:38am
The high school near me had a story where some sub had sex with a student. The schools now one of the worst in the state (Victoria, Australia).

But anyways, if the kids old and mature enough, why not? It's still love.
TeenageVampire666
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July 10th, 2006 at 05:47am
which school was that? i'm from victoria too, could that have been what happened at my school?
Detention Boy.
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July 10th, 2006 at 06:03am
One od my teachers ended up marrying one of his students. No one knew about it until she graduated. They are still together and he is still teaching. I like that guy, one of the best teachers in the whole school.

I'm not all against it, as long as both sides want to be involved in that relationship and it doesn't influence his work.


monkeyinair
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July 10th, 2006 at 06:42am
really unless anything they do is illegal, i find no reason to object against it. they are still human beings right? i mean if the teacher had a different job views on their relationship would change right? that's not fair


*sorry if you can't understand my crappy english
miss girl.
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July 10th, 2006 at 01:05pm
depends on age, as others have said. but thats only for sleeping/living with the teacher. if your in say the 9th grade and you and a teacher are in love its fine to be together as a normal teenage couple would, just not sleeping together. otherwise its fine.
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Killjoy
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July 13th, 2006 at 05:20am
Dark Angel 666:
which school was that? i'm from victoria too, could that have been what happened at my school?


It happened at Roxburgh Park, It's near a crap suburb, so you'd expect that because most of the kids there are druggies or theifs.
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July 13th, 2006 at 11:33am
I think its horrible. Teachers are there too teach kids, not sleep with them. Eww.
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Killjoy
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July 13th, 2006 at 10:31pm
i was listening to a current affiars program on my local youth radio station, and it was about how a female teacher was groped infront of her 1st year class, by a leaving student in his school leaving year. It made the female teacher feel embarassed and ashamed.

maybe the teacher/student sexual harassment thing can go both ways