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Lonlymaiden
Bleeding on the Floor
Age: 33
Gender: Female
Posts: 1637 | September 28th, 2006 at 07:47pm
ok when ppl talk about cheating they always say its "disrespectful".......well F@%k RESPECT.......if you luved someone as much as you say u do what the fudge iz the point of cheating.......now ive have never been cheated on nor have i ever cheated on someone.......but my friends have been cheated on and it breaks my heart to see that some a$$ hole who says "i LOVE YOu" to them one minute then turns around and screws someone else.......
so what do u guys think does cheating have anything 2 do with respect??
post back plz |
joy_angel_23
Killjoy
Age: 40
Gender: Female
Posts: 10 | September 28th, 2006 at 08:10pm I think that, in some minds, they want their "lover" to feel the pain just because they have issues. I mean, I dated a guy that was practically borderline schizophrenic 2 times and each time he had nice days and bad days. He would cheat on girls with guys, and then ditch the guy when a new girl came along. The relationship with him ended with him threatening my family and my own life. Right now I face an Internet stalker who is cracking into websites because in his head we are dating, when in reality we are not. In reguards with cheating meaning respect, alot of people define how someone can earn respect in different ways. Just because the guy/girl LOOKS too good to be true, 95.9% of the time they are hiding something. |
Lonlymaiden
Bleeding on the Floor
Age: 33
Gender: Female
Posts: 1637 | September 28th, 2006 at 08:24pm wow well put.......*claps* |
MistressRhi
Motor Baby
Age: 40
Gender: Female
Posts: 991 | October 2nd, 2006 at 10:06pm i think that in some cases these people have no respect for who they are with and just enjoy getting around, in other cases i think its a cry for attention because the experts say what you look for in other people is what your relationship is missing at the time.
so sometimes its about respect and other times it isnt. |
bloodredruby69
Banned
Age: 35
Gender: Female
Posts: 8293 | October 3rd, 2006 at 01:55am Bad judgements, wrong choices and heat of the moment.
Thats all I have to say. |
akjfoprg
Fabulous Killjoy
Age: 31
Gender: Female
Posts: 174 | October 4th, 2006 at 05:43pm I reckon they have some insecurities in their relationship or they just haven't worked out what commitment is about |
jamie is dead!
Thinking Happy Thoughts
Age: 30
Gender: Female
Posts: 549 | October 4th, 2006 at 05:47pm I think it's horrible.
What if you cheated on someone who really liked you? That would break their heart, and seeing someone with a broken heart, for me at least, makes me feel so so sad.
Why would/should someone cheat on someone else? Why can't people just end the relationship before you start seeing other people?
Gosh. |
Lonlymaiden
Bleeding on the Floor
Age: 33
Gender: Female
Posts: 1637 | October 4th, 2006 at 05:59pm ^^ omg that exatly what i mean.....why would u cheat on someone and break their heart.........breaking up with them would be less hurtful |
MistressRhi
Motor Baby
Age: 40
Gender: Female
Posts: 991 | October 4th, 2006 at 08:18pm because some people dont care about the person they are with and some people are just scared of ending up alone |
gerards_demolition_lover
Fabulous Killjoy
Age: 35
Gender: Female
Posts: 129 | October 6th, 2006 at 04:43pm I am dating 2 guy's at the moment....i only "like" them....i do not love them....i only love one guy...but...he say's he just want's to be friend's for now....  (
that is why i am d8ing 2 guy's....to get my mind off of loving him.....(even though it isnt really working..... |
Lonlymaiden
Bleeding on the Floor
Age: 33
Gender: Female
Posts: 1637 | October 6th, 2006 at 07:16pm ^^^
omg thats so messed up...u should break up w/ one of them
before they find out about each other
i'd feel bad if they found out  |
Alex DeLarge.
Motor Baby
Age: 36
Gender: Female
Posts: 779 | October 7th, 2006 at 02:50am gerards_demolition_lover:I am dating 2 guy's at the moment....i only "like" them....i do not love them....i only love one guy...but...he say's he just want's to be friend's for now.... (
that is why i am d8ing 2 guy's....to get my mind off of loving him.....(even though it isnt really working.....
See, to me, there's a difference between "dating" and being in a relationship.
You're young, date around. Don't tie yourself down.But when one of them gets serious, that should stop.
I, myself, am guilty of dating a guy and a girl at the same time. I do it alot, actually. Until serious feelings develop for one of them, I date both. When it's like that, it's pretty much just like hanging out with friends all the time.
Wow. I seem like a slut...lol |
Lonlymaiden
Bleeding on the Floor
Age: 33
Gender: Female
Posts: 1637 | October 7th, 2006 at 01:10pm ^^ "wow i seem like a slut..."
haha thats funny....do they know about each other??? |
Alex DeLarge.
Motor Baby
Age: 36
Gender: Female
Posts: 779 | October 8th, 2006 at 04:13am Yeah, they know. We all encourage each other to do the same. but if someone has objections, the situation changes. It all depends on who's feeling what and why...IDK. It can get wierd sometimes... |
cocaine.
Shotgun Sinner
Age: -
Gender: -
Posts: 8558 | October 8th, 2006 at 07:23am I don't agree with cheating.
In fact, if you don't love the person you are with, then why are you with them?
You're obviously not satisfied enough with what you have, if you go ahead and find someone else.
I am talking about when you are married or engaged with someone, and you've obviously made commitments, but can't be bothered following them.
And also I don't agree with cheating now, because it only leads to people cheating more later in life. |
chillpill
Always Born a Crime
Age: -
Gender: Female
Posts: 5640 | October 13th, 2006 at 03:26pm Okay.
So my so called boyfriend hasn't said that he loves me in the past two weeks. That when I should've known this was going to happen.
Last night we were talking on the internet and he starts talking about how he hasn't eaten anything in the past week and has lost 20 pounds because he's depressed.
I asked him why and he told me that he's in love with his friend that he's known for two years.
My friend told me that he's said that he "loves" both of us.
This is not going to work out.
And would it be considered cheating?
(My other friend and I were argueing about what "cheating" is and he said that what my boyfriend did to me isn't cheating. =/)
This shows that he has no respect for either of us, and not only do I feel bad for the other girl, but I feel bad for this boy himself and he's stupid behavior. |
Lonlymaiden
Bleeding on the Floor
Age: 33
Gender: Female
Posts: 1637 | October 13th, 2006 at 10:23pm so iz he cheating on u or did he just say that he likes the other person 2??
if the only thing he did was tell u he likes someone else i dont consider that cheating(in my opion), unless he acutually did go out and cheat on u.... |
the disenchanted one
Killjoy
Age: 32
Gender: Female
Posts: 73 | October 15th, 2006 at 12:59pm im just testing out my siggy, please bear with me |
the disenchanted one
Killjoy
Age: 32
Gender: Female
Posts: 73 | October 15th, 2006 at 12:59pm and it doesnt work |
Alfred.
Salute You in Your Grave
Age: -
Gender: Female
Posts: 2141 | October 15th, 2006 at 03:05pm I'm being cheated on right now. &&& shew told me. &&& I don't care, either. You see I'm bi. My gf got a bf....and is still dating me.
My gf claims that that means I'm dating her bf too.
I've never met him.
^^
messed? or what?  |
