Pre-Marital Sex
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| the_black_parader Thinking Happy Thoughts  Age: 30 Gender: Female Posts: 495 | yes my religion does outlaw sex before marriage. i think society has a huge impact. its giving us the idea that pre-marital sex is good or cool. its not. especially shows like 2 and a half men and how i met your mother. |
| John St. John Shotgun Sinner  Age: 31 Gender: Male Posts: 7145 | Were not talking about under age sex.. just pre marital sex. And pregnancy and STD's can occur married or not. |
| Mindfuck Always Born a Crime  Age: - Gender: Female Posts: 5614 | the_black_parader:Pre marital sex doesn't have to be underage sex. Where I live the legal age is 16. the_black_parader:I think it's good, because I don't want to get married. The thing you fail to understand is that marriage is not a must, from my point of view it's a want (and yes, I understand there are arranged marriages and the like, but they are not common in my country) and it's something that people can choose to do, or choose not to do. If you want to get married and remain a virgin until then, that's your prerogative. But that's certainly not a decision everyone would make, because marriage is not compulsory. |
| em's lil baby girl Banned  Age: 26 Gender: Female Posts: 39 | I don't know why people have a problem with this, it sounds really old fashioned and religious. Actually not religious, because I know for a fact my local priest has often engaged in pre-marital sex. I think people should be allowed to sleep with whoever they want, whenever they want(once they don't have a husband or boyfriend already), because it's up to them, and no one else. |
| for reasons unknown Awake and Unafraid  Age: 103 Gender: Female Posts: 11073 | my religion says that pre-marital sex is wrong but i don't necesarrily agree with that. for me, it's only wrong if you're going to be srupid about it (e.g. sleeping with someone you just met, not using a condom, etc.) . as long as you're steadily dating someone who you know well and trust and you have a contraceptive i think pre-marital sex is completely fine. |
| S713 Joining The Black Parade  Age: 33 Gender: Male Posts: 225 | Most religions don't look upon contraception kindly either. |
| callmemrx Killjoy  Age: - Gender: - Posts: 8 | Abstaining from sex until marriage has no benefit other than to satisfy the notion of an outdated practice. These days, it's mainly used as an excuse for virgins to explain the reason they are yet to get laid. Then again, each unto their own i suppose. |
| Sandwichmeorelse Killjoy Age: - Gender: - Posts: 3 | Pre-Marital Sex? Erryday! |
| mcr1199beth Killjoy Age: 26 Gender: Female Posts: 1 | my view is that it depends on what kind of people you are. my aunt and uncle had two children before they got married four years ago and they're still happily married. But my friend's parents spilt up when her mum got pregnant with her and she doesn't know her dad which i think is really sad. he didn't want to get married to her mum when she got pregnant and now she's grown up without a dad. |
| ShotgunSinner123 Killjoy Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 16 | I think that it's fine, provided proper protection is used, and both people know what they are getting into - I've seen people get hurt after having drunken sex at parties, and then having unreturned feelings for the boy, who just wanted to get off. And obviously as people have been saying, teen pregnancy is a big problem too. But I think that if people in a relationship have sex, that's fine - I think its a nice way to show intimacy in a mature relationship. |
| Alexface. Salute You in Your Grave  Age: 31 Gender: Male Posts: 3489 | Why not? I see no reason to keep sex a strictly marital thing. Of course, there is nothing wrong with sex that is done in a relationship for non-procreational purposes, but on top of that (ignore the pun xD) there's also little wrong with having children outside of marriage, as long as the parents are actually in a serious relationship. |
| inkraven80 Killjoy Age: - Gender: - Posts: 10 | I feel like if they are in a loving relationship and use protection then it is fine. If you can discuss the consequences if something were to happen, for example a child. and you are willing to deal with that if it happened. you both love each other enough to stay together through it all. I think it is ok then. as long as you are responsible. I am not a religious person but i do feel like region is very against any pre-marital sex... even if protection is used. |
| malibu. In the Cannibal Glow  Age: 30 Gender: - Posts: 54114 | Mindfuck: I agree with this. I appreciate the idea of waiting until marriage (marriage representing true love, someone that will be with you forever and never wrong you), and it's great if people want to do that for their own reasons. But pushing that onto society is not realistic, especially considering how many people get divorced. I personally wanted to wait for someone I knew loved me and I trusted. I was raised around religion, not strict, but still religion - and I feel I did honour what I percieved the message behind "no sex before marriage" to be; only having sex with someone you love. It's not anyone's choice but your own about who or when you have sex. I think it's nobody else's business about who a person chooses to sleep with (unless said person is underage). And safe-sex has nothing to do with pre-marital sex because ALL sex should be safe, whether in marriage or not. Unless you want a child or an STD, you need to take precautions. That's just a fact. |
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