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Synyster Gates
Awake and Unafraid
Age: 32
Gender: Female
Posts: 13136 | March 9th, 2007 at 12:55pm
i think online relationships can work for some people, but just not for others. i talked to this same boy every day for a year, and i got really fond of him. he asked me out and i said yes, but then he got another girlfriend but still said he really liked me. thats a downer of online relationships.
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billy99
Motor Baby
Age: -
Gender: -
Posts: 888 | March 9th, 2007 at 06:58pm Yeah, I guess so. |
Insurgentes
Bleeding on the Floor
Age: 36
Gender: Female
Posts: 1479 | March 9th, 2007 at 08:06pm I have been in a couple, myself.
I think that if the people are willing to put their minds to it, sure, they can do it. The distance can be bad, like long distance relationships that involve mere phone calls rather than just typing back and forth to one another.
Like everything, it has it's risks.
It takes a lot of committment and a lot of trust. |
abcdef...Gee!
Bleeding on the Floor
Age: 29
Gender: Female
Posts: 1445 | March 10th, 2007 at 06:07pm wat about friends... i hav online FREINDS.... i think thats ok.... ive met 1 but i dont know about a romantic relationship.. i guess its ok... if u can hav an online Friendship, wats the diff? |
stannis baratheon.
Salute You in Your Grave
Age: -
Gender: -
Posts: 2422 | March 10th, 2007 at 07:21pm To be honest, I think that it'll work for some people, and not others.
My dad met his girlfriend on the internet, and they live together now. Living proof that Internet relationships can work. |
Fireplug.
Salute You in Your Grave
Age: 33
Gender: Female
Posts: 4635 | March 10th, 2007 at 07:37pm It's difficult as fuck, but... usually if you really love the person; it's worth it.  But you gotta be smart, so you don't wind up dating a 50 year old man. Ewie. |
druscilla.
Bleeding on the Floor
Age: 36
Gender: Female
Posts: 1671 | March 10th, 2007 at 07:39pm Fireplug.:It's difficult as fuck, but... usually if you really love the person; it's worth it. But you gotta be smart, so you don't wind up dating a 50 year old man. Ewie.
Unless you're a 49-year-old.
Sorry. So it's not spam...
I agree. Being smart is something you should always do online though, not just when it comes to relationships. |
xMari_Malicex
Motor Baby
Age: 33
Gender: Female
Posts: 775 | March 10th, 2007 at 08:07pm Unless you're legal (and sometimes not even then) I wouldn't even begin to mess with online relationships. People think they're being smart and that they'll be okay, but a lot of teen girls have been murdered from going to meet their online 'boyfriend' and finding out the person is not who they say they are. The internet isn't really safe at all, unfortunately. Even the tiniest bit of information could be the key to someone getting to you. |
i_feel_high
Killjoy
Age: 30
Gender: Female
Posts: 49 | March 10th, 2007 at 09:07pm i have had many internet friends, bfs, and im from NJ too. my bff is in colorado. hes nice |
Stark
Awake and Unafraid
Age: 50
Gender: Male
Posts: 11095 | March 10th, 2007 at 09:11pm ive had 2 now and theyre working fine
untill this weekend when im meeting up with my girlfreind of 6 months for thr first time
i love her and i know thatit makes it easier to love someone for themselfs |
Human Wreckage xx
Really Not Okay
Age: 30
Gender: Female
Posts: 730 | March 10th, 2007 at 10:35pm i think they're pointless...
how do you really know someone if you've never got to know them in person?
chances of online relationships lasting for over 6 months is rare in my world...
for all you know you can think you "love" the person and they could end up being somebody you don't even want to talk to anymore once you meet them. |
Illuminatist
Salute You in Your Grave
Age: 41
Gender: Female
Posts: 2354 | March 10th, 2007 at 11:30pm Online relationships really depends on how both of you handles the situation..
Trust is the main foundation of it..you should just be aware of the pros and cons of the relationship..
im fine with these as long as we love each other..but heck i dont have an online bf yet, so its hard to tell if it will go smooth..well dont expect anything too |
Illuminatist
Salute You in Your Grave
Age: 41
Gender: Female
Posts: 2354 | March 10th, 2007 at 11:32pm oh and by the way, my cousin had a bf before, they met online but the guy makes an effort to really vist her here in the phils. and its kinda awesome but the thing is it didnt work out after all...i jst dont know why it didnt work out but the guy loves her so much |
Simple and Clean
Salute You in Your Grave
Age: 30
Gender: Female
Posts: 2616 | March 11th, 2007 at 05:45am I think they can work, but it's like what drucilla_way said, you need to want the person, and not just a person.
If the person I speak to most online was younger, and I was older, I think we've both mutually agreed that we would be in an online relationship.
I think that the same rules should still apply, in terms of age gaps and things. |
Frankie-Oreo
Salute You in Your Grave
Age: 32
Gender: Female
Posts: 2818 | March 11th, 2007 at 06:11am im okay with it as long as it is ACTUALLY a person your age who describes themselves perfectly
not a 48 year old pedo who poses as a hot big busted blonde chick looking for 'gud tymes' |
WOT.
Banned
Age: 31
Gender: Female
Posts: 1151 | March 12th, 2007 at 01:47pm I think its okay when you're older than 14.
But i dont get them becos you dont know if its the real person you think it is..
They could show you a picture that isnt them.
Ive not tryed it and i wont EVER try it.
But You ALWAYS(!!) See them on the Jeramy Kyle show The week after  .
My sister (Age 17) Met a dude from MSN Who just randomly added,
Shes with him now and been with him for a year,
So i guess it could be good for some people..
But he lives somewhere far from Manchester.
So its hard for her too meet with him.
I Dont wanna say anything too her becos shes bigger stronger and really coooool 
And hes older i think hes 19..So i 'spose it's okay for some people who go on decent sites
Like ones advertised on TV |
RED M A S S A C R E
Salute You in Your Grave
Age: 31
Gender: Female
Posts: 2407 | March 12th, 2007 at 02:29pm
hmm...
i think that online relationships are really complicated
many dont work out because there is no physical connection.
and if it does, it was truly something that is meant to be...
but i dont think anything is wrong with them.
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XCyanideSuicideX
Fabulous Killjoy
Age: 32
Gender: Female
Posts: 130 | March 12th, 2007 at 04:47pm I met my boyfriend over the internet i finally met him
and we are the happiest ppl you will ever meet
i love him so much he is my world and i see nothing wrong with
having online realationships thats how i met the love of my life. |
HU4L
Jazz Hands
Age: -
Gender: Female
Posts: 351 | March 12th, 2007 at 07:16pm i_feel_high:i have had many internet friends, bfs, and im from NJ too. my bff is in colorado. hes nice
o rly?!?!?!
wow!
you are finally getting revenge back on lauren huh? 
i thought you said you were just friends!!!!!!!!  |
HU4L
Jazz Hands
Age: -
Gender: Female
Posts: 351 | March 12th, 2007 at 07:17pm the person i met is a huge liar!but idk why but I love him |
