Frerardness, is it appropriate?

Alive and Inspired.:

Okay, I just wanna put some questions in for the sake of the discussion!

IF YOU DONT MIND FRERARD

1) Shouldnt the guys GF be taken into consideration?
2) Why have they suddenly started doing it lots now?
3) What about the younger fans who have parents with them?
4) Wont it attract the wrong type of crowd? (teenies etc.)
5) Does it matter that Frank and Jamia are married/engaged?
6) They might lose fans over this!

IF YOU DONT LIKE FRERARD

1) Isnt it a rock show? It shouldnt really be g-rated should it?
2) This has been going on for a while now, why speak up now?
3) Its harmless, isnt it?
4) Is it being 'homophobic' to not like Frerard?
5) What do you think of other 'boy love' concerts?
6) Why do you mind it so much?

Just for the sake of the discussion!
Im not on any side anymore to be honest, Im not too sure on where I stand! XD

mikey's_glasses:

it's a good way to express their feelings on stage..and also a hidden message to all people DON'T BE AFRAID OF YOUR SEXUAL ORIENTATION

Gerardcasm.:

Fucking Spastic:

i mean, no one is up in arms over gerard and bert's on stage relationship

and that was 3 years ago, and alot more intense than what he's doing now

*chokes*

I MISS THEM!

Sowing Season:

It guess it kinda encourages teenies but why should they have to change their live show for some kids who probably won't even like My Chem next year. My Chem shows have also had a lot of sex and swearing. Why should they change because of they have more younger fans? Maybe young kids shouldn't listen to My Chem.

Sowing Season:

Most rock shows are all ages. But that still doesn't mean young kids should be there. I see plenty of stuff that 13/14 and under kids maybe shouldn't see at all ages shows. It's up to parents to decide what is age appropriate for their child, not My Chemical Romance. If your parents don't like what My Chem is doing. That's awful, explain to them how incredible they are. Make them listen to one of Gerard's speeches. But if that doesn't work kids are just going to have to wait until their parents think that it is or turn 18. And I'm pretty sure most My Chem fans know what Ferard is and what their live show is like unless they are new to the fandom which if that is the case there's no doubt they will find out very soon. You can't expect a band to change for that. God knows I wouldn't.

I never lied about all the boy love at My Chem shows to my mom. I just made sure she never found out about it because I knew she would never approve. My mom doesn't agree with homosexuality. So I kept it a secret. I don't have to anymore since I'm adult and can do whatever I like. I was 16 at my first My Chem show. That's a good age for a rock show. My mom has never and will never go to a rock show with me. Parents shouldn't be a rock shows. They really get in the way. Do you really want your dad in a mosh pit? Your mom there at a show while you're rock out? No. Don't bring your parents to shows.

And it only over shadows the music if you let it.

Sowing Season:

Do they really need to give the same old speech every show after a while it starts to sounds like one of those school "Stay in school and don't do drugs" assemblies. After three years of being a My Chem fan, I know the message they are trying to spread. There's no need to hear it every show. When I go to a rock show I just wanna have a good time. I don't have to learn a moral lesson at every show. Besides between the ages of 16 and up you really should be making decisions because they are the right thing to do not because Gerard said so. Plus I like to see the boys having fun. The Black Parade Tour was soooo serious. The speeches made on that tour felt forced and so after school special. They made everything serious business. Lately things have been reminding me of 2005 and I love it.

Sowing Season:

I dunno, but I'm pretty they probably just get caught up in all the attention. I mean sometimes Gerard totally gets this happy evil genius look on his face when he is about to do something he knows will make the crowd go wild. But after a while I'm pretty sure all the boy love will go back to normal. Remember it's not only My Chem fans there. LP fans might not be so tolerant of homosexuality. That might have something to do with the increase.

Sowing Season:

I'm pretty sure if their girlfriend had a problem with it. The boys would stop. I really don't think Jamia is worried about Gerard trying to steal Frank away. I seriously doubt it.

Alive and Inspired.:

Okay, I just wanna put some questions in for the sake of the discussion!
[i]
IF YOU DONT MIND FRERARD

1) Shouldnt the guys GF be taken into consideration?
2) Why have they suddenly started doing it lots now?
3) What about the younger fans who have parents with them?
4) Wont it attract the wrong type of crowd? (teenies etc.)
5) Does it matter that Frank and Jamia are married/engaged?
6) They might lose fans over this!

Alive and Inspired.:

Alive and Inspired.:

Okay, I just wanna put some questions in for the sake of the discussion!
[i]
IF YOU DONT MIND FRERARD

6) They might lose fans over this!

Just for the sake of the discussion!
Im not on any side anymore to be honest, Im not too sure on where I stand! XD

>.< I hate being last on the page

brooke belligerent:

it's NOT just about sexual orientation, so don't you dare call me a "homophobe".
like, for example, if paramore did similar things, like if hayley decided she wanted to make out with josh on stage, i'd still think it was weird.
it's not that it's two guys that bothers me. it's that they're doing it in general, when i know their shows can be awesome without all that stuff happening.



edit.
and to whoever it was that told me that the band
is against homophobia yesterday,
i DO NOT have to have the same opinion as a band i like.
although i'm not homophobic, it wouldn't matter what they
thought even if i was.

Alive and Inspired.:

Okay, I just wanna put some questions in for the sake of the discussion!
[i]
IF YOU DONT MIND FRERARD

1) Shouldnt the guys GF be taken into consideration?
2) Why have they suddenly started doing it lots now?
3) What about the younger fans who have parents with them?
4) Wont it attract the wrong type of crowd? (teenies etc.)
5) Does it matter that Frank and Jamia are married?
6) They might lose fans over this!


Just for the sake of the discussion!
Im not on any side anymore to be honest, Im not too sure on where I stand! XD

My Dear Juliet.:

Alive and Inspired.:

Okay, I just wanna put some questions in for the sake of the discussion!
[i]
IF YOU DONT MIND FRERARD

1) Shouldnt the guys GF be taken into consideration?
2) Why have they suddenly started doing it lots now?
3) What about the younger fans who have parents with them?
4) Wont it attract the wrong type of crowd? (teenies etc.)
5) Does it matter that Frank and Jamia are married?
6) They might lose fans over this!


Just for the sake of the discussion!
Im not on any side anymore to be honest, Im not too sure on where I stand! XD

1. No. If their girlfriends have such a problem with it, I'm positive the boys would respect their wishes and stop.

2. I honestly have no answer for that. If you noticed they have been drowning their concerts with sexual acts. It's probably just to sell more tickets.

3. If the parents have a problem, then they can leave. No one is making them stay at the concert and it's not My Chemical Romance's responsibility. THOSE parents took THEIR kids. It's simple. Leave if you don't like it.

4. Who cares? You guys act like teenies are the devil. Let kids be kids. You can't do anything about it. We all have a little teenie inside us.

5. NO. Gerard and Frank are just having fun. Honestly, stop taking it so seriously.

6. Then they lose fans that never were their fans. If you're a true fan, shouldn't you be paying more attention to their music instead? I thought that fans who payed attention only to the sexual acts were "teenies", remember?


and for the people who don't like Ferard - leave them alone. It probably makes them uncomfortable. If they don't agree or like it then we just have to accept that and respect their opinions. And it doesn't mean they are homophobic. Seriously. Stop jumping at their throats, they don't have to like it.

Gerardcasm.:

brooke belligerent:

it's NOT just about sexual orientation, so don't you dare call me a "homophobe".
like, for example, if paramore did similar things, like if hayley decided she wanted to make out with josh on stage, i'd still think it was weird.
it's not that it's two guys that bothers me. it's that they're doing it in general, when i know their shows can be awesome without all that stuff happening.



edit.
and to whoever it was that told me that the band
is against homophobia yesterday,
i DO NOT have to have the same opinion as a band i like.
although i'm not homophobic, it wouldn't matter what they
thought even if i was.

You could've just said that yesterday and I would've apologized for calling you such. You came across as a homophobe by calling it "weird" and then not justifying yourself in the situation as you did just now, and I know it's not only me that thought so.

What I meant by the whole "the band doesn't support homophobia" thing is, I never meant you had to have the same opinion as them, but you (not you... but you know what I mean) shouldn't say things like that on the band's fanboards.

sorryyyyyy.
i'm just really horrible at phrasing things, but i didn't know how to put what i was thinking into words while not making me sound homophobic.
i didn't do a very good job of doing so, and i definitely apologize to anyone that may have taken offense to what i said.

[:

brooke belligerent:

sorryyyyyy.
i'm just really horrible at phrasing things, but i didn't know how to put what i was thinking into words while not making me sound homophobic.
i didn't do a very good job of doing so, and i definitely apologize to anyone that may have taken offense to what i said.

[:

Gerardcasm.:

Meh, I could've done better myself. Not as defensive or whatever. I apologize for calling you a homophobe.

Good now?

Alive and Inspired.:

FrozenRose:

I kind of think that maybe they do it for attention? I don't know, it could just be me. I mean, if they want to do it, no one can stop them, but still. It's like when they were playing an hour from where I live, and the flyer was like My Chemical Romance, The Black Parade, Muse (the concert was cancelled.), The Black Parade isn't necessary, because we all know it's still them with some alter-ego name they think they need to set a mood.

But again, it could just be me. As for the fanfics, the Frerard annoys me anyway.